i care about what i look like and my other question was hard. dat gurl go to my school and called me ugly?

Question

hard thing to say is that she is the most popular gurl in da class . she looks at me alot and he is rude. i try to bo a bigger person but now i admit im 11 and i care how i look its just harsh, im scared to get fat and i want to stop that . i dont want to get through peer pressure either but now im goin through alot im always looking for a counciler but i cant tell my mom cuz its too personal for me. i always need help like that. i always fell fat when people stare at me i just am a shy gurl but i cant do what all these people say like ignore her. i try to but its hard when sometimes u have to sit by her. i have so many problems i thank everyone for the other question advise but now im just scared on how i look =[ is that bad???

Answer 1

all i can say is don`t pay attention to her. yeah you worry about your looks but if all you ever do is worry about what others think of you, i swear you`ll get nowhere. you`ll be stuck in a black hole for the rest of your life worrying if you`ll impress the right people. just go on and live life. if you feel good about yourself, then you`ll just KNOW you`re pretty, you don`t need people telling you you are. and you definitely don`t need snobby people telling you you`re ugly. if she has the nerve to call someone ugly like that, she must be pretty ugly herself.

Answer 2

Don't worry about it . What you are going through is normal . Everyone gets teased by people bigger, smarter, richer, or even more popular . I am kinda shy like you, and i went through that before . Try making friends with people that you know will stand up for you when she starts being mean . Also i think you should tell a teacher, school counselor, Principal, or one of your parents . They can help you . Hope it all works out and you feel better .

Answer 3

I know its easy to be concerned about the way you look, especially if people are putting you down. I am only 20, so i can remember what it was like to go through that. Oddly enough, when people say ignore it, they will go away, so on so forth, you think, "ya, right, like that will happen, you dont know what its like" etc etc. But in reality, a lot of the times they will stop. I grew up getting picked on, and always kept to myself a lot. It is true, realy beauty does come from the inside. If you are worried about the way you look, and want to change things, thats fine, but do it because YOU want to, not because you feel you have to. Depending on the relationsihp you have with your parents, sometimes talking with them does help. These people who like to pick on others and put them down, may or may not change, and no matter what you will probably always encounter people who arent nice. But remember, no one is liked by everyone, and these popular kids, even though they may be popular, are probably not liked by a lot of people if they dont treat people well. You are still young, you are still growing, try not to get into the bad habits of always eating junk food (trust me i did lol), but a little bit is fine. If you are worried about gaining weight, then just eat healthy and excercise, but it is okay to treat yourself once in a while. WHat you think is major now, down the road as you grow up, may not seem so major. You will make it through this! As you grow up, your body will change, you dont stop growing until around 18 i think. If you are feeling stressed out, then talk to someone, be it a school counsellor, friend, family etc. Beauty is on the inside, not the outside.

Answer 4

She is probably just jealous. I am very shy too. I always tell my best friends everything though. She is trying to make you think that your fat so you get all sad and then she can kick you when your down. I'm just around your age too. It does'nt matter if your fat or skinny. At my school I'm kinda popular and not all the popular kids are ultra skinny so don't worry about it.

Answer 5

She envies you. You probably have the figure she wants. If she pays that much attention to you she really must want to be you. Im like 12 now, but last year, I was crazy because I thought I was too skinny and I had no appetite, I felt no one understood me, people were making fun of me and they still do, but those people who bother you choose to be immature. Let them, because one thing you do know is that you have what they want.

Answer 6

listen girl, what you have is a low self-esteem! you really shouldn't care about what people say or think bout you cause it isn't their job to judge you and if you're so scared of getting fat then maybe you could join a sports team or do more physical activities.