Flirting Techniques?

Question

I think Im in love with a guy, but before telling him, I want to send him some clues, what can I do to flirt with him?? I'm also a kind of shy guy, so I need HELP! I think he likes me but maybe someone with experience can give me some good tactics or advise, please.

The thing is that I already know the guy, he is been my friend for years, and we spend too much time together, travel, go to the movies,etc and I'm confused about his feelings for me. How can I know?

Answer 1

Show that you're interested in him - his views, ideas, ventures...this does not mean you should agree with everything, just ask questions and look him in the eye, lean toward him while he's talking and smile. Think about how you would like to see someone respond to you, and do that.

Answer 2

If your sitting next to each other, bump his knee once in a while and smile or laugh. Look at him and give him the "once over," but not in a bad way, just look and wink once and smile. Don't overdo or make him paranoid.

You haven't said how he acts around you, so I can't tell whether he likes you or not. You can also rub his shoulders or just LISTEN when he talks. Just don't push too hard.

There's a reason they say, "discretion is the better part of valor." Because by being "discreet" he doesn't get paranoid and blow you off as a friend if he isn't interested.

Answer 3

Winking is risky, it can come off as kind of creepy, I'd avoid the wink. Go with the accidental knee bump, compliment something about him, talking is always nice, good old fashioned stuff. Good luck!!

Answer 4

Look at him, when he looks back catch his eye real quick, then look down. As quick as a 1/2 breath, look back up at him. If he's still looking, smile.

Answer 5

Uhhhh, read the bible. This sort of action is prohibited, you mess up the whole peace of the world, the birth of humans and life itself.