Thanks for all yr answers guys. For people who thinks that I am mom's boy or violent...pl. don't get me wrong. I don't talk to my family members because of how they treated my wife in past and may be now too??but I can't just leave them forever. At the same time I always tell my wife that she is wrong too as she has hardly adopted them since my marriage so what do you accept?? What would she do to me if I treat her family like this.actually I am seeing it now when I misbehaved with her mom. She drags me to these fights and then we both get angry on argumnets and ends up in fist fights,infact my chilren stayed with my inlaws for 2 yrs without seeing my parents eventhough they r in same city.what abt that?I helped her family when they needed me and with all of these what do I get?that I talk to my parents and I am a JERK?I may be a hard guy to deal with but I always loved my wife, kids and inlaws.She I go and get her back?I know she wil nevr say that it was her fault 2 she is 5000km away
2007-01-29 13:36:37 · 2 answers · asked by pranavmony 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Give her some time and space and let her be... You cannot make someone love or want to be with you .. You kinda seem controlling.. She is not a dog you know so you cannot just bring her back .... If she wants to come back she will and if she does not she wont... Dont push her is all I am saying and give her some space and time to breathe and think. remember it takes two to fight and you chose to fight with her and be abusive to her... She is obviously very afraid of you... What you did to her is your fault and if she did anything wrong that is her fault but she is not all to blame here you know... Do not play the blame game... How does she have the power to drag you into fights???? You chose to fight with her bud. I kinda hope she stays seperated from you for a while and if you were abusive and controlling she really needs to divorce you and stay away. I know there is another side to this story and i would like to hear it from her....
2007-01-29 13:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife should come first. It's that simple. You should never let anyone mistreat or disrespect your wife.
2007-01-29 21:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋