It is so Addicting?

Question

Okay i have this problem. I've only had sex twice so far. I've been practicing abstinence for almost two years now. I will admit i lost my virginity when i was 14. I've been watching porn since I was eleven. I've stopped. I was addicted to porn practically. Now i can get sex out of my head. i dream about everyday. People just look at me and know I am a freak. Sadly I have been having sex with myself. How can I erase sex from mind? I'm only 16 and I'm so sex obsessed.

Answer 1

There is no easy way to recover sexual addiction.
The first thing you must do is find a group. They are located everywhere. Just go to any counseling center, and they can direct you. I have been in group for about 4 months now. Trust me. It might sound intimidating, but it might be the only way. The actions you are exhibiting create addictive chemicals in your brain that makes you more addictive than heroin and cocaine. The only drug that creates more of the addictive chemicals we have in our brain is crystal meth. It is a serious addiction that takes an average of 2-5 years to recover.

Answer 2

How to avoid porn addiction on the Internet

1. Consider installing porn content filtering software( Strongly Recommend NetDog Porn Filter,you can get it from www.netdogsoft.com ) on your computer. it will help to protect you from stumbling into pornography by accident, That's important.

2. Do not try to guess what the address of a Web page is. Many pornographic sites have similar addresses of respectable sites. For example www . whitehouse . com is a porn site. The real address is www. whitehouse . gov

3. Never click on Web site addresses that you receive in an unsolicited email.

4. Do not open attachments that come in email that are unsolicited.

5. Use filtered search engines or reputable directories to find the information you need.

6. Do not search for terms like girls. Think before you enter a search term.


Stick with reputable sites.
If something looks questionable, don't let curiosity get the best of you. Delete it or close the window.

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Answer 3

So, you lost your virginity and are trying to maintain abstinence. You gave up the porn(congratulations) but accept the fact that you are a 16 year old boy and every 16 yeor old boy out there is dreaming of sex ALL the time, fantasizing about all the girls. You are probably imagining people thinking your a "freak" unless you are wearing shirts that say "I want to F you." you are not a freak. You are "having sex with yourself. So is about 90%of all male poulation, not just 16 year old boys. You sound perfectly normal to me. Let go of your worrys and enjoy being a young man.

Answer 4

that's pretty common for male teenagers. Do what most of us did during that phase of life ... "spank the monkey" a lot. You'll most likely out grow the obsession. You're lucky, when I was a teenager it was very difficult to find a nice, pretty girl who was willing to have sex. I didn't first get laid until I was 18 years old. Things are much different today. Practice safe sex.

Or you can do what I did as an adult American male obsessed with straight sex ... move to Bangkok, Thailand. You'll get so much great sex with so many women that the obsession will abate. (practice safe sex) You'll take it for granted until you return to the West.

I still masterbate occasionally, even with all of the good sex. available here. I just spent the weekend with a beautiful Thai woman, all of 4 foot 5 inches tall and about 70 lbs. We did it until unconscious about a dozen times.

Answer 5

Animals eat sleep mate and defend, as do human beings. Human have the ability to question their existence but animals do not. Humans are supposed to use control over their own senses otherwise in their next life if they have not made any spiritual advancement they can glide back to an animal body. It is the laws of nature. Chanting the Maha Mantra is the quickest way to bring the senses under control. We are not meant to act like cats and dogs not controlling our sex desire. Go to harekrishnatemple.c Read Bhagavad Gita as it is By Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada- it gives the process how to control sex desire and all addictions, as well as Karma, reincarnation, and the purpose of human life. It workde for me. and I love chanting.

Answer 6

One step,if your religious, is to look up scriptures on purity and memorize them, so you think of that everytime you get an inpure thought. You may want to get some help for a porn addiction, you can't go into a marriage (once you get marriade) having this problem, no wife wants to worry youlooking at porn and the kids running into it, or you getting caught at work doing it. There was five other steps to purity, but I can't remember them. I would have to go threw my Pastors past messages to find it.

Answer 7

you have to replace the thoughts with more mind nourishing thoughts; this is how anyone with any type of negative thoughts changes...you have to put some work into consciously catching the thoughts.... then replace those thoughts by making your mind think about something else that is healthier.. at first it will take quite a few tries, but keep working at it.. and soon you will conquer the thoughts..
part of the problem is the physical, hormonal stage that your body is going through.. however, beware. sexual thoughts and porno do make the mind sick.. it does turn into an emotional disease....
I know you can get through and conquer this!

Answer 8

masturbate.

check how many times you can do it one night, then do it twice more. I promise you will hate sex for a week. then repeat.

I know it is a sin to do that, but less of a sin than to ogle every female you meet.

oh, and find something else to keep you occupied, something that you like a lot. class/sport/music/computer-game. mmorpg's tend to be highly addictive, and anarchyonline.com lets you play for free forever.

Answer 9

Please do find a support group, such as SAA. Sex addiction can ruin your life. Fortunately, you are still young enough that it will be easier for you to stop it than a much older man.

Answer 10

Think of something else more important in life....

Are your socially acceptable?
Are you finanically independent?
Are you morally free?