Your ex and you are on good terms but your girl who has her own house does not like your ex of 14 years. All she needs is a place to stay and she cleans and does things for you and you even want to have sex with her cause your girl won't.
2007-01-29 13:19:53 · 18 answers · asked by ENCHANTRESS ROSE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't have an answer ... Only you can decide for yourself .... Here are some questions that may provide you with additional info to make the best decision for you..
The girl (daughter) is grown and on her own? Does a child have the right to dictate the behavior and decisions of a parent?
Is the parent answerable to the child?
Would the parent be a living example of coming to the support of others? Could that message also be a security to the daughter ... knowing that if she messed up she will have no fear of rejection or judgment if she needs to rely on the parent?
Would the temporary co-habitation be bodily or emotionally harmful?
Could the temporary co-habitation be beneficial to both parties.
Prevent future regrets. ... What would the self imposed guilt do if something harmful came to the ex ... knowing that if the ex were taken in that no harm would happen (that's clear as mud) lol
I wish you the best.
2007-01-29 13:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by Miss_Deb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. My ex-wife can't stay by my home. Sex is not an issue here. I take care of the needs of the household. If she wants to sleep outside in the car with 0 temps, she can. That's OK by me. I don't care. Just as long as it's not next to my home.
2007-01-29 14:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by ally_oop_64 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You want your cake and eat it to. Yes, let your ex wife stay at your house and help her find another place to stay. Instead of doing the cleaning and things like that she shouls be looking for a place to stay. If you let her stay at your house make sure it is not in your bed. NO SEX. You are just being a good friend making
sure she has a place to SLEEP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-29 13:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would let her sleep outside in the cold but I would first go in and get a pitcher of water and throw it on her before I turned the lights out on the porch.If I was in a good mood at the time I might tell her good night sweet dreams.
2007-01-29 13:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
me and my ex are not on good terms, the temps outside are below 0, let her sleep in the car, i don't care, and i'm not even involved with anyone either
2007-01-29 14:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should get back with your ex cause thats what it sounds like you want to do.Grow up and make a decision dont take advantage of people.there are shelters for homeless people she doesnt have to sleep in her car.
2007-01-29 13:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by hot choclate 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you're willing to cheat on "your girl" with your ex, is why she isn't well accepted.
It would be nice to give her a place to stay, but not if it's going to hurt your current relationship. Think it through.
2007-01-29 13:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by kttm :] 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you and your x apparantly have more in common than you and your girl do. Perhaps you should consider telling your girl it's not working out between you......and go back to your x's house.
2007-01-29 13:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"My" ex, can sleep in the garage in her car and I am even willing to take her a portable heater, but I do not want that trying to cuddle up with me at night. Damn, now I know I am going to have night terrors. See what you did..!!!!Gotta put my K-9 in attack mode all night,,!!!
2007-01-29 13:26:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The ex sleeps in the car...period...
2007-01-29 13:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋