I have been with my gf from last 6 years, 2 years ago i came abroad for studies and now her parents want her to marry by this july but i can't make it by this july, i love her very much. Give me advice?
2007-01-29 13:17:44 · 19 answers · asked by inder 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to her and tell her the reason why,ask her to marry you but get engaged first and say we will marry in a years time or 2 if that's what is needed her parents have no say in the matter if you like talk to them to.tell them that you want to finish your studies and get a job before you marry because you want to be able to give there daughter all that she needs to be comfortable in her life with you.every parent wants the best for there child
good luck
2007-01-29 20:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something doesn't make sense here for the parents to demand this. Do they think she has been waiting too long for you? Try to get in contact with the parents and explain that you deeply care about their daughter and want to get married. Try to be prepared with an alternative date that you could make. This will give them an assurance their daughter is not in a perpetual dating situation with you which would concern any parent. If you can't contact them ask your girlfriend to discover their concerns and tell you and the contact them. You really need to talk with the parents.
2007-01-29 13:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by StarGalactica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you and your girlfriend should talk with her parents and let them know that although you respect them and care about them that right now is not the right time for the two of you to get married.
Marriage has to be YOUR choice and YOUR Girlfriends. Dont get married for other people or just because other people think you should. If you do it will only lead to disaster!!
If your girlfriend is pressing you to get married as well, let her know what your feeling and that you do love her and want to be with her, but if you love her today and want a life with her then you will love her later on also. Just be honest with yourself and her. good luck
2007-01-29 13:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her parents and make some arrangement if that don't work. it's ur girl or ur education. hey i think the girl is worth it if you love her she's not going to wait for long. if her parents is determine they will marry her by july. but your education can always wait you can always go back to school anytime. but u lose the girl you will never get a second chance
2007-01-29 13:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to your gf, see if you can move it back to next July? As long as you gf don't mind it doesn't matter what the parents want, it's you twos life
2007-01-29 13:20:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her parents you want to get married at a later date. if they want a july wedding, tell them nex july. or you could be ultra romantic and marry her by adventuring across the wold to marry her in time. that would make a great movie. not to mention how head over heels she'd be for you. your move, ace.
2007-01-29 13:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by glowinthedark707 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her parents. Tell them that you love the girl very much and want to marry her. Tell them to wait till you return.
2007-01-29 16:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by Electric 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a sequel III of Meet the Parents.
2007-01-29 13:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by jaypea40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't rush these things, you have to decide together, without the outside influence. Do what makes you happy, or your anniversary will be a day your parents remember, not you.
2007-01-29 13:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by deedee6335@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry on your OWN time and tell ehr parents the circumstances and tell them that you need some time and space for such a large ordeal.
2007-01-29 13:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋