What should I do? It's been so long, my lonely longing heart is lost with time..?

Question

I fell in love with this guy 2 years ago. He was my first love. I don't know why I loved him so for it was only a short time (2 weeks)..but I did..I gave my heart away..

We broke up.. I have moved on, he has moved on.. He is with somebody else now. But I see him everyday. I see him looking at me, I see him watching me, checking me out.. I see care behind his stare.

I have ignored him for a year after the break up for time has put up mountains between the two of us even when we agreed to remain friends, I didn't have power to move it myself..I chose not to deal and ignore him. Ignore him I did and he got impatient waiting so he went to her...her who was all over him begging..

A year passed, I finally got over him. Decided to say hi, start over, be friends, be congenial, for enemies with someone you love is hard.

He talked back. He blushed. It was a quick exchange of a couple of words yet meant too much. It felt good. I continued saying hi after that but he chose to ignore

me, giving me the cold shoulder. My heart couldn't take it. I decided to stop saying hi and forget. Forget I did. A couple of months later, to my surprise, he started saying hi to me. Smiling, can tell the nervousness from his voice. Still the stares, the look, the feelings..

they are all there.

I can "feel" it.

What do you think about his actions? What should do for my heart is confused? Please help!

Answer 1

You guys broke up once before and after only 2 weeks. I don't know the reasoning but if you couldn't make it work for more than 2 weeks and he's playing head games with you, you need to move on and forget about it. He will only end up hurting you. I can promise you that.

Answer 2

You each just need to continue talking to each other and see what happens don't push it.

Answer 3

ask him out like to lunch or breakfast and talk about it

Answer 4

just play hard to get.. if its meant to be then u will know it.