My husband and i have been having problems and don't get along as we used to. When i met his friend i instantly was attracted to him and wonder if he has mutual feelings toward me. My hubby is jealous of him because i think he knows i like him. how would i go about finding out or getting his attention?
2007-01-29 13:05:17 · 22 answers · asked by angel_of_darkness2480 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He wont show it right off the bat because he is your husbands friend...try to include him when you and your man go out with friends try to do things to get you and him alone and see how he acts...don't tell him that things are going south for you and your man because he wont want that kind of drama....Answer the phone when he calls and be super sweet...work with him and give it time..he needs to trust that you wont tell your husband if you and him start talking...time time time
2007-01-29 13:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 7⤋
First of all, I think you are being very immature. Second of all, you don't NEED to know if he's interested in you or not. You should have left your girlie crushes at the alter. I get the feeling you don't even know what marriage is all about, or even care. You need to grow up hun, and I mean that in the nicest way. You sound childish, and you probably shouldn't have gotten married when you did. All couples have their problems....but they work on them and get through them...together! That's what marriage is all about. Give your husband a chance, give your marriage a chance. Leave the co-worker alone.
2007-01-29 14:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by ksgirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Think about this, you may get bored with this guy too! You may be having problems with your husband, but I'll bet your interest in this other guy had made them worse. There is a lot of truth to the saying the "grass is always greener on the other side," so when you get there it's greener someplace else. I think you get my message.
Why not try and get your marriage back to where it was when you first got married. Think about the things in your husband that attracted you. Get some good counseling. I know it happens all of the time, but it really is not wise to check out your next conquest when you are still married.
2007-01-29 13:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by Joy K 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really need to grow up and then go look in the dictionary for the meaning of the word M A R R I A G E.
Marriage isn't dating...you don't leave because you're not "getting along".
2007-01-29 13:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
woe, slow down just a little. First you need to get your butt out and get your own place and think about filing for divorce. Why would he want anything to do with you at this moment if your married and living in the same house with his friend? He would never respect or trust you. And you would never trust him. Do things right , there is no since in hurting anyone to satisfy you curiosity. I am curious though what if he doesn't want anything to do with you then will you want to stay with your poor husband? Yea that what I thought.
2007-01-29 13:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well since no one else will help you...I will. Now....from what you have said you are living in trailer #110.....so....call Jerry Springer....tell him the story.....get a FREE trip....but hold out for FREE Hot Dogs.....Then.....and ONLY after getting the free hot Dogs....when you have your husband AND boy toy on stage....go over to Boy toy....and give him a B low job....Then he will Know you like him....or a least till the hot dogs are gone.
2007-01-29 13:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by oldman 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm not gonna be mean like these other people - but as one married women to another. Out of respect you should get a legal separation or a divorce first. If he really likes you he'll be there whenever your done with your business.
2007-01-29 13:20:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
You don't... You are MARRIED. If you are having relationship problems then fix them or get out of the relationship if you want to give up on it, but you don't go flirting around like a whore when you are married... that is just wrong.
2007-01-29 13:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
You should be ashamed. But, your probably not. Hopefully, your husbands friend is just that, and rebukes your attempts. Try counseling, but if that is not the case, get a divorce. Hopefully you do not have kids, cause if you do, YOU are DESTROYING THEIR lives.
2007-01-29 13:11:43 · answer #9 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Were the words "Love, Honor and Respect" in your wedding vows? You clearly don't understand what they mean in a marriage.
2007-01-29 13:20:25 · answer #10 · answered by 2000 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wear a very short skirt in front of this friend and make sure your "commando" , and bend over right in front of him and see his reaction???? Or maybe have your husband invite him over, and introduce him to you???? You need help,,,,,
2007-01-29 13:19:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋