just feel like he thinks I am granted
2007-01-29 13:04:48 · 22 answers · asked by silver wings 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Making him Jealous is not the answer. However, you can stop doing things for him, and having sex with him, till he asks what's wrong, then sit down and air it out. You will get better results
2007-01-29 13:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't give details, but most men probably do take their wives for granted anyway. Don't try to make him jealous. Don't open that can of worms. It's best just to have some time alone with him and talk to him. Let him know why you feel you are being taken for granted. Men don't have a clue unless you communicate with them.
2007-01-29 13:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by TPhi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to do that? My ex-husband the last few years we were married paid me no attention. I use to tell my friends that I probably could have sex in the living room and he would come in and ask it we had see the remote for the T.V. But when we got divorced he tired for five years to get me back but it was just to late. I think you should think about why you want to make him Jealous. If you two have problems may be marriage counseling could help. Don't wait until it is to late.
2007-01-29 13:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by Janst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had the same problem. My first piece of advise is to act like you are confident. I have a hard time w/that, b/c my husband already knows that I am not. However, I joined a gym, and also got in touch with some old girlfriends. Just a couple of little things like that will let him know that you have a life outside of your home. Good luck!
2007-01-29 13:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by Chrissy S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why wasting your energies on scheming to make him feel jealous if he takes you for granted? There're other ways too to assert yourself. Don't give in so easily in the daily chores or in the bed.... if you're the hornier and ever ready for the act(s) think of some other ways to relieving your tension but not submitting to give to gratify you....unless, of course, he comes down to his knees and begs...
2007-01-29 13:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a suggestion but don't make him jealous, just treat him the same way. Stop waiting on him hands and foot and let him start doing things for himself. If he questions why then you can lay it on him how you really feel. Good luck.
2007-01-29 13:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it is wise to try to make your husband jealous. I think you should talk out whatever the problem is and if communication can not be restored then go your seperate ways
2007-01-29 13:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by dbell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day I was joking with him saying that I have a dildo and I didn't need him for satisfaction. I don't have one of those crazy things. But I couldn't believe how he took it. He was like what? He then started asking me where its at and kept on bringing it up throughtout the week. Until I was like DAMN IT!! I was just playing I don't have one. Yeah even to this day he will often bring it up and look at me weird. It really got to him. Sounds silly maybe it might work for you.
2007-01-29 13:13:36 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you do is find another man then start dating him. Then after a couple dates bring him over to the house and sleep with him in your husband's bed while he is home.
2007-01-29 13:10:28 · answer #9 · answered by i jones 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are too immature to deserve to be married. Woman up and stop acting like you're 12.
2007-01-29 13:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋