I used to be best friends with this girl, and not alot of people liked her. They thought she was a bad person. My family didnt like her either. She was my best friend for 4 years, we did everything together, we were like sisters.
Last year, we had a really big fight over stupid stuff, shes homeschooled now, and we dont talk.She said alot of stuff behind my back & really hurt me. We both have different friends now, and none of our friends really like each other.
But I always find myself wishing we were still friends.I miss all the fun times we had together. Even though she was bossy & sometimes really mean,and chose boyfriends over her friends, I miss her to death. Ive thought about talking to her, but I know things will never be the same, our family & friends dont like each other, and my other friends would be mad if I started hanging out with her again.
But sometimes i wonder if she feels the same way & wants to talk to me & doesnt
has this ever happened to you? what should i do?
2007-01-29 12:36:56 · 11 answers · asked by <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My sister actually went through something like this that was SO similar to your problem. She had been friends with this one girl since the 5th Grade.
They fought, and her friend always called her mean things behind her back. We lived in apartments near boys, and whenever her friend was over, she would throw herself at the guys.
My sister thought it was annoying, and so did all of the other family members. She was annoying, and she wasn't nice to a lot of people.
She liked running her mouth a lot- something my sister didn't do. The friendship just didn't work out well.
My sister called her one day and told her that she didn't think the friendship was going anywhere. She told her that they didn't have much in common anymore.
Her friend fought with her some more and got her Avery Trace friends to send her mean text messages. My sister got really mad.
They don't talk anymore, and my sister thinks it's best that way. Their friendship couldn't work out because they both wanted different things.
My sister still misser her friend, but she KNOWS things won't be the same. She knows they'll go back to fighting.
Don't tell yourself that calling her will patch up all of the bad fights. Obviously- at one point- you thought it was best to end the friendship, so let that be your reminder of why the two of you aren't friends anymore.
It's normal to miss what you had with her, but don't dwell on the past. Make new friends, and remember that the friendship was good at one point.
I hope this helped. Don't ever think you made the wrong decision for doing what you thought was right.
2007-01-29 13:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bff forever was just like that. One day we got in a big fight and we didn't talk to each other. She gave me nasty looks and she hurt my feelings. I still had other friends but i missed her a lot,so I decided to just tell her why she was mad and said sorry. Butshe kept on being mean. I talked to her again and told her she was acting dumb I told she needed to stop. And the other day she said sorry and we became bff again. What I'm saying is you should tell her sorry and if she is still mean just forget her and hang out with your other friends.Hope that helps!!
2007-01-30 08:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by ♥alex♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me once, and I did become friends with this girl again, and she screwed me over again. It wouldn't hurt to ask her if she still wants to be friends. If she does, let her know we need to hash this out if need be before we give this another go. If she is ok cool lets do it, be her friend, slowly reintroduce her back and let your friends know forgiveness is a good thing, and that if they did something like this to you you would do the same thing. If she is mean to you, get ahold of your friends and have them beat the crap out of her friends, while you do the same to her. It will be a fun, stress reducing experience!!
2007-01-29 12:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by gshelton11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like a good friend at all. Sit down and write out a list of good things and bad things about her. If the negatives outweigh the positives then let it go.
2007-01-29 12:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by diamoniquejazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this has happened to me with another friend i cant say. i have to tell u it hurtz. She got influened and did things i cant mention. but she never wanted to be my friend becuz she got a new crowd that was good for her. she was my best friend!
i think you should contact her. if you didnt you would always be wondering if urlife would be different if u had her in ur life. i feel bad for u. i tried contacting my friend but unfortunatley for me i never got a phone call. I hope i helped you
2007-01-29 12:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by Smart Blonde! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the same thing that happened to me and my other friends didn't like my best friend either but my best friend go t mad at me and were not bff nomore but i went to talk to her and were best friends again but don't listen to ur other friends their not the boss of u so if u really miss her go talk to her be brave!
2007-01-29 13:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by Rose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2007-01-29 12:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to talk to her.
It does sound like you lives have went different ways and you should just let it live in the past and move on.
2007-01-29 12:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is exactly how my ex-bff was you just got to forget about it its no big deal if she was really your friend yall wudnt have gotten in a fight over stupid stuff and she wudnt have talked about you behind your bak!!!!
2007-01-29 12:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say forget about her and gust go out with our new Friends.
2007-01-29 12:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋