i neede advise on this cause alot of people think im a gurl lil gurl . but on a messsage a gurl just made me angry she goes to my school everyday and now i need help. i cant tell my mom this cause i never do that stuff . help me out !!! someone told me to be the bigger person but i just cant
2007-01-29 12:28:20 · 10 answers · asked by Jennnnifer 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Ignore the girl. She's just jealous of you. Jealous girls usually bash others they are jealous of.
Just ignore her. There's nothing you can do except lift your head high, picture her for the rat she is, and move on.
People like that will get theirs back. What goes around comes around.
2007-01-29 12:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first you should talk to your mom about it just because you don't do that doesn't mean you should it will relieve some stress from that encounter and your mom will also be all the happier about it to hold you head high and be proud she's probably just trying to make you feel bad because (not on purpose) you probably made her feel bad maybe you dated a guy she like or maybe she is intimidated by your looks but who cares what she thinks if you think your beautiful you are no questions asked
2007-01-29 12:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont take what this girl says seriously. She may know that you care about what you look like and she said what she said on purpose because she wanted to hurt you and knew that that would get to you. You are going to live through life with people saying things that you may not like and that may hurt you... Its important to learn early how to block these things out so you dont stress about it and focus on it when you get older..
2007-01-29 12:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never listen to what anybody says when they tell you you are ugly. Generally they are the jealous one. You know you are not ugly and that is what matters. Pay her no attention. Her mean talk will get her no where and in the end she will regret saying anything. Good luck.
2007-01-29 12:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by Nece 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldent care what other people say they could just do that to bother you or to make you mad i mean many kids in my school say bad things about me and i could end up hearing but i mean i don tcare because they are not any preatyer or uglyer than me everyones the same nobody is diferent
2007-01-29 12:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by foxy33698562 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore the gurl bcuz she is obviously jealous just be like BACK OFF LOOK WHO'S ACTING LIKE A LITTLE GURL and i bet she might back off
2007-01-29 12:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously you need to not worry about what ppl think. some ppl are just jerks!!!! im sure there are much uglier than you next time you see her say something that will really embarrass her like tripping her with her lunch tray or something like that
2007-01-29 13:27:51 · answer #7 · answered by monkeymaniac_101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people say mean things to others to minimize their own insecurities and fears. By ignoring her, you're showing her that its ineffective. They're very shallow people and it is not worth your time to worry about them.
2007-01-29 12:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about what other people think. beauty is in the eye of the beholder. if you think you're pretty then your confidence will show through and other people will see that.
it's all about self esteem hunni.
2007-01-29 12:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is good for you, those girls would not be jelous of you
2007-01-29 20:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by Gopal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋