my bestfriend goes out with my ex. i have no problem with them going out, but hes comming between our friends ship. i have no idea what to do because i dont want them to break up. and another, my other friend keeps on comming in and is trying to break them up and dont know what to do about anything!
2007-01-29 12:20:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
your bestfriend can't be that much of a bestfriend if she is going out with your ex
even if you have no problem with them going out its still rude that he is trying to come between your friendship and she is doing nothing to stop him. this shows that she is more afraid of losing him than of you
coz she obviously knows that you are a good friend and are going to be there for her no matter what.
you have to stand up for yourself and tell her that if she doesnt tell her guy to stop that its either him or you.
Mates before Dates.....
Boys dont last forever but friends sure do....
don't get stuck being kicked around by your friends... you deserve better.
2007-01-29 12:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by cutiebabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your best friend about how you feel, and tell her that you think that her relationship with your ex is making your relationship with her more distant. Tell your friend that you are OK with them going out, but you want to spend more time with her because shes your friend, and thats what friends do.
Also try talking to your other friend that wants your best friend and her boy frined yo break up. Ask her why she is trying to break them up, and try to understand where she is coming from.
If your best friend really is your best friend, than she wont let a boy come between you and her. If she tells you to back off, or just stop butting into her life, then she is not the right kind of friend for you. Good Luck and Best Wishes to all your friends.
2007-01-29 20:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is truly ur best friend tell her that u feel ur ex is pulling her away! And that you dont want the friendship to be wasted. talk always works but can be hard to do. i hope i helped u !
2007-01-29 20:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by Smart Blonde! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stay out of it all
2007-01-29 20:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋