do you find it hard to control your sexual appettite?
Have you ever done "stupid" things just because you were hot?
I am gay and i find it almost impossible to control.
When i am hot a lose control
2007-01-29 12:19:36 · 18 answers · asked by whoknows 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Somehow you seem to be an embarrassment to gay people everywhere.
2007-01-29 13:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by castle h 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no, I do not "find it hard" to control. I've never done anything stupid because of sexual desire. I've only had 2 partners in my life. 2 partners who I loved/love. I've never "slept around." I've met far more straight people (and, I have no hatred towards straight people as I have many straight friends) who were fare more promiscuous or "out of control" than any gay or lesbian I've known. If this is such a concern, you may want to consider counseling. this is not a problem that pertains only to homosexuals.
2007-01-29 15:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very hard to maintain control when you experience the taste and feel of another man. I could have easily been a man wh--re because I loved having sex. Remember... play it safe and use a condom... Good Luck.
2007-01-30 02:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by beachguy_41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it's sexual identity that causes an increased sexual appetite...I think it's more of a biological/personal trait more than anything. My girlfriend is very sexual and my sex drive is almost non-existant. Maybe you should focus your obvious pent up sex-drive into another outlet....say a sport? An art?
2007-01-29 13:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by obwahine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is tough one!
are you over weight or do watch what you eat!
people take up hobbies to fill time and reduce other activities, ever notice how hard those suburban mom spend keeping their kids in activities so they date less....so not use drugs and not drink or smoke early.........spends her life in car........to do this
self control comes from channeling your activities
as being hot and doing stupid things......are you under the influence at those times........then avoid stimulants
do you go to others place and let lose..then take them home...
good luck
2007-01-29 21:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jonathan L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel your pain, but for some it's just impossible...i'm like you and have a high reving appetite BUT i'm able to put it hold y doing other things, sports, martial arts, writting and such...i have to keep it on hold alot for the sheer fact that the love of my life is HIV+, and although we are safe it still makes things uncomfoptable for him, he worries about me etc etc etc...but we've been 2 gether for 6 yrs and monogamous at that..so it's possible..and let me tell yah i get my fair share of attention and there were times i wanted to go off the races ( with permission of course ) but i value my realtionship too much to toss it away for one night, now if i was single it'd be alittle more carefree but even then i'd keep it in check just for the aspect of proctecting myself.
2007-01-29 14:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by sdhousekat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Done many stupid things when I'm hot, will do many more..
When ever i see a hot guy that's it, I'm on all fours just wanting to be punished.
I'm out of control right now...........♥
2007-01-29 12:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lust is a human trait and not exclusive to either gays or straights. Consequently itsall a matter of self controland respect for yourself and others
2007-01-29 14:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by stunna3m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get that now and then, when you just go absolutely wild and its insanely awesome. Other times it can be controlled.
But if i am fully turned on nothing can stop it haha
2007-01-29 13:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by traven_blood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it hard to stay in control when I'm really aroused because I don't have adult freedoms yet I don't have an outlet for my lust. A confident powerful guy would have me crawling around worshipping him in seconds anywhere anywhen
2007-01-29 12:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Socks 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. I don't find it hard to control at all, but then again I'm not 18 again either.
2007-01-29 12:46:25 · answer #11 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋