We have been married for 2 years, dated for 2 years. He admits he looks at transexuals on the internet and made the calls but never did anything with them. I found calls going back to the time we were dating and throughout our marriage when I was out of town.
2007-01-29 12:16:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There are definitely trust issues there for sure. I highly suspect that he will act on his fantasy sooner or later and cheat on you.
And to "the mysterious one" -you need to become a little more informed before you beak off about subjects you obviously know little about.
2007-01-29 15:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by gurlygirlhottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you've been searching for strategies to make it artwork, you does no longer be snooping round HIS call heritage. you actually does no longer keep urgent him to verify some thing you already wholeheartedly trust. i am going to understand the way you're doing this stuff, to keep from searching like/feeling like a fool. i'm effective i might want to in that difficulty. yet, someone who's maximum in touch about their children turning out to be up in a 2-be sure kinfolk, with those mothers and fathers being in a loving relationship, won't be able to be so confrontational. Do you experience that by technique of him confessing, it would want to be the first step in tries to fix the relationship? If he's mendacity, then what? when you're searching for out if he's devious, and he's, are you in user-friendly words going to seem any incorrect way? Or will you up and go away? both way, the position is the happiness in that relationship? I understand your moves. i do not realize your reasoning in the back of the moves. Oh, and to respond to your question. Prostitutes do what they do for user-friendly money. I infrequently imagine an honestly prostitute, will waste her time on the phone consisting of your husband. the in user-friendly words verbal change she will want to have, is at the same time as and the position they are meant to hook up. That in user-friendly words takes a jiffy to verify. So, he o.k. would were merely asking a question. yet that query might want to've been "how a lot do you cost". So, it would not recommend he's not considering dishonest.. merely that he would no longer be dishonest in what he stated.
2016-12-03 05:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to talk to you about this. He is probably 1) terribly ashamed, and 2) confused.
In some men the attraction of the T-girl/she-male or whatever is that he is able to indulge the fantasy of same sex action while pretending that he's with a woman.
I disagree with the assertion that transsexual prostitutes as a group are more likely to have a disease.
Genuine transsexuals are often rather concerned about their health, as they ultimately wish to make the transition into womanhood. HIV makes any such operation more challenging.
Maybe you mean gay guys dressed up as women for prostitution purposes? In this case because they are men they tend to take more risks than women, and consequently may be at more professional risk from STDs.
If you want to stay with your man, you better make it pretty clear to him that if he is visiting prostitutes - and they do you know dear - he must have safe sex.
By the way, clients of cross-dressed prostitutes want first of all to give a bl*w-j*b and secondly most of them want the prostitute to s*d*mize them.
You might want to explore this avenue with your husband. You could try exploring his anus with a finger and if he reacts well you could try doing him with a dildo.
2007-01-29 12:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhhh OUCH! Honey, your husband is over the top for the transsexual fetish! These people are dangerous and sometimes carry disease! They have both genitalia and are Double Trouble!!! I would take the hint and split from the marriage before you are in real trouble and catch something!
Sorry girl but look on the bright side!! You can now find a new man and that alone is exciting!!!
Good Luck and I hope this helps you!
2007-01-29 12:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a decision only you can make, and have to live with. Depends on how the marriage is overall, including your sex life. Ask him why he does what he does and if that is what he prefers, why did he marry you. Some people are more "tolerant" of indiscretions, and other behavior. Good luck.
2007-01-29 12:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! He's into chicks with *****, so you'll never be able to satisfy him completely. Don't be a fool. Find a man that respects you and is faithful to you.
Otherwise, you need to buy a strap on and see if that will satisfy his unusual fantasies.
2007-01-29 12:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would strongly recommend that you do. This is very serious. This is the reason why so many women get HIV/AIDS through hetrosexual sex because their men are sleepng with other men.
If you want to put yourself at risk for that then that's up to you.
2007-01-29 12:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,I'd definately consider it,at least,a breach of trust. I wouldn't be able to trust him again,and I doubt a marraige can survive without trust.
2007-01-29 13:47:42 · answer #8 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My spouse was bi-and it just was not my cup of tea, so we divorced and now he is happy living a bi-life, alot happier. You can not hold somebbody back from who they are, life is too short to be unhappy.
2007-01-29 12:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by kitzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends whether he's stopped doing it and your willing to forgive and forget. Knee jerk reactionism will help nothing. Invest in time and trust
2007-01-29 12:27:53 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Socks 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋