Some of the men in my life say that all men are cheaters, so that makes me wonder if my husband cheats!!!! What do you think?
2007-01-29 12:03:36 · 46 answers · asked by Tabatha 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the idea of cheating is there but the consequence of cheating is what balances it all out. some either dont care about being caught and others know what they have is too great a risk to lose.
2007-01-29 12:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by ray g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men say this stupid thing to try to justify to themselves why they are cheaters. All men do not cheat, I am a firm believer in that. There are decent good men out in the world that want to be treated with respect and love the same as women do. All men don't cheat because they know the repercussion of what it feels like when a woman cheats. No one wants their trust taken for granted, no one wants to be used regardless of how tough, or strong they claim to be. Love is a wonderful thing there are some out there that's to afraid to actually try the real thing because they are either afraid or greedy.
2007-01-29 12:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by soldierlady226 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not true. Just like not all women cheat. If a man truly loves you, he will not cheat. And the reverse is true. The problem is that so many people marry thinking they have the love of their life, but they are wrong. There are a lot of men out there with integrity. And some day, I know I will meet one hahaahaha.. but do not doubt your husband, if he is cheating on you, you will know. Like, did you really ask this question because you heard that all men cheat? or did you ask this question because you have doubts in your husband. If you have doubts in your husband, then maybe he IS cheating. Always go with your gut instinct. They are usually right.
2007-01-29 12:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by tootsie38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the men who say that are cheaters. Only immature and selfish people (men and women) cheat. They usually blame their partner or say that's just the way men are. It's a lie. If you love and care for the person you are with you would never want to cause them pain. Tell the men in your life they must not be men of character to feel the way they do.
2007-01-29 12:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 99% cheat but i dont think thats a good reason to assume your husband is cheating .Unless he has given you reason to beleive other wise you should always have some trust in your partner (your married) unless you have solid proof leave it alone just sit and pay attention without making accusations everything must come to light sooner or later.Womens intuition will help you along the way.If it does happen to be true dont give up yet contraire to popular beleif i dont believe once a cheater always a cheater.Or men because of their biology have to cheat.Any one can be reformed if the want it just depends on how much you want,what you want and how hard your willing to try to get it or keep it. I dont think all men go on to be habitual offenders but i do believe the majority of them try it one time or another as most women believe.but i wouldnt base my marriage on statistics.think positive and hope for the best. good luck
2007-01-29 13:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by hot choclate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you got your answer :) Most people here feel the same way.........its so unfair to assume that all men cheat. I think men like to let their imaginations go a little bit...maybe even flirt while happily married. But it doesnt make them cheaters.
As a matter of fact, my ex-husband was hit on by many woman (some being my so-called friends) and he was insulted that there were so many people with no regard for marriage and commitment.
If your husband was cheating, you possibly would be the first to know. People dont know because they refuse to believe it. Listen to YOUR heart, not the broken ones of others!!!!!
2007-01-29 12:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No all men are not cheaters. If you are having suspicions about your husband then maybe you need to investigate but if your only line of defense is some men say all men cheat then that's not a good idea
2007-01-29 12:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by poison 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All men do not cheat. If they have the right woman in their life they are content. So my question to you is are you the right woman for your husband? Is he still happy? Does he still do little things to get your attention? Does he still look at you the way he did when you first married him? If so then you have nothing to worry about. He loves you and is completely happy. If he doesn't still do things like that then you might have something to worry about and you might not. No one can say for sure. Does he go off for long periods of time without a full explanation of where he's been?
2007-01-29 12:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by spoiled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really can't say for others, but I'm a guy that has never cheated . I've been married twice. The first time 18 years, and nearly 15 years so far this time. I like women, but I love only one, and would never hurt her. Besides, why steal hamburger, when I have all the prime rib at home that I could possibly want.
2007-01-29 14:19:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
"Some men say all men cheat." I'd like to know where you get your facts at. I would say, being a guy and all, that most men don't cheat. There may be a small percentage of us that do cheat. Apparently, "one rotten apple does spoil the barrel." Good luck!
2007-01-29 12:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋