hi i have been in special ed since the 2 nd grade. Now my 10 th grade year at high school. I got out of special ed today was my first day in resourse. It was awful there were all boys i was the only girl in the class besides the teacher. The boys in the resource were talking about drugs and sex and scream and jumping off the walls i hate it i have only been in resoure for 1 day that was today and i don't want to go back i am in that class for study hall and i could not do any work the teacher does not care and does not do anything she just put her head down on the table and takes a nap.
Please tell me what should i do!
2007-01-29 12:00:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
What should i do these other kids in the class are driving me crazy these boys are scream taking the flag throwing it on the floor nothing is wrong with them they all have ADHD I have nothing i don't have ADD or ADHD ! I have antexity though and panic attacks
2007-01-29 12:02:22 · update #1
My parents don't help me at all i have to take care of everything my self!
2007-01-29 12:08:21 · update #2
My teachers suck the students suck too
2007-01-29 12:10:00 · update #3
conselor, principal, parents don't help me at all i have been stuck like this for 9 years of my life am finally get help from you guys
2007-01-29 12:11:28 · update #4
am so sick of my life its so tough i never have anything really great in my life! 9 years this has been happening to me
2007-01-29 12:16:04 · update #5
my parents love it that am in special ed! I don't feel its right for me i feel so depress!
2007-01-29 12:17:32 · update #6
Tell your parents or guardian first, and have them talk to a school counselor. They should talk about how the class is not appropriate for you, that you so want to go to school and learn, and it seems that you won't be able to in that class. Have them ask what else you can do.
They could mention that the teacher does not seem to be able to handle the class, and that the loud class might make your condition worse. Have them tell the counselor about the drugs and sex talk. If your parents or guardian can't, or won't deal with it,, you need to. Just be honest about what you saw. I would not mention the teacher putting her head on the desk right off, you do not want to make her mad, just yet, in case it takes awhile to get you out of the class. Save that one until after you get out of the class. Maybe your parents could visit the class, and see for themselves. I believe they have the legal right to do so.
Maybe it is time for you to go to regular study hall .Surely there is somewhere you could go for study hall, some school job you could do to get you out of the loud room. Are getting treatment for your panic attacks? Good if you are!
Congratualations on getting out of special ed, sorry the new class is not good.
2007-01-29 12:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by riversconfluence 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well in my school we can visit our School Guidance counsler for sheadule changes. Do it ASAP as your choices will become slimmer the longer you wait. Infact I suggest telling your consler the whole situation and why you want out of that class.
You need to have a head to head talk with someone about this parents, another teacher, principal, If you cant get help at home theres always many other ways like the ones I listed above.
If after trying all of the above and still nothing helps, Ask the teacher if you can go to the media center to work in a more Quiet enviroment but dont resort to this option unless you tried the other ones!
2007-01-29 20:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear your having such a rough time. If you only have that class for study hall, I would go to the in school library instead. If the teacher doesn't care, she won't know if your are there or not. Let the principal know. That will keep you out of trouble.
2007-01-29 20:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by kayjay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is awful for you! Your teacher should be dealing with this. Can you talk to your parents about this? I know that you have rights, and you shouldn't have to stay in a place where you are unhappy. You need to take this problem to a couselor or the principal. It's there job to take care of you, and they should be able to put you somewhere else during that class period. Don't be afraid to talk to them, because it is their responsibility to make sure that you are not hurt and feel comfortable at school. You shouldn't have to listen to bad talk, especially in a classroom. I hope that things get better for you honey...hope this helps
2007-01-29 20:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by Sympathetic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cut the class! Imagine that you are in danger and go sit in the library or the administration office where people can see that your no trouble, because if your hurt by those boys fixing the problem wouldn't help you after your hurt. The Library would be my choice because books are where the knowledge is stored. You will also show the people in charge that your not damaged like those boys are.
2007-01-29 20:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I am so sorry to hear that you have to go though all of this, you must have had one heck of a day.........
I guess if you are quite certain that your parents do not care, then you have a couple of options.....first, do you know who your guidance counselor is for this year? if you do, please make an appointment, tomorrow morning and go speak with her or him...or for additional help.......and it sounds like you might need it......and right away.........do you have something in your community like p.a.v.e... project against violent encounters..... you could look under youth crisis or something similar in your phone book.......... I can somewhat relate, but certainly, not entirely...... go to the office tomorrow morning and make an appointment with your school counselor, the principal if need be, and try and look under anything in the phone book that looks like teen crisis or anything..........also, if you had something like united counseling services..................look under therapists or counselors........make a few calls if you have to, and explain this to them, they may have some answers or guide you to a teen hot line.............this is emotional abuse, what the teacher is allowing these kids to put you through and to get away with, and for her part, turning her back and taking a nap, is the same thing, as turning her back on her student..(you)..........please take care......and try and make your parents listen...............
2007-01-29 20:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by amber 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Number one talk to your parents tell them everything going on. Then tell your parents that you intend to speak to your guidance counselor about this. Tell you counselor what is happening and ask for a transfer to another class. Do not be worried about the teacher getting in trouble because she won't. But get yourself out of this destructive class.
2007-01-29 20:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by Extra Blue Note 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. They should come in and talk to the principal about this. If the principal doesn't take care of it, they should get a lawyer involved.
Good luck!
2007-01-29 20:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by Husker41 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It seem s that you are a good person,what are experiencing is natural, most of the people does not want to be in that kind of enviroment. but you have to realize that nobody in that room has something against you, all of those kids are dealing with their own problems, and care little about yours, you have to look at them with compasion, and i know that may be you can't help them, ecouse you have your own problems,, what you have to do is find peace within you, tellevery body obut thissomeone is going to hear you and helpyou
2007-01-29 20:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by dragonisaac 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get out, talk to your conselor, principal, parents, anyone. If you are in that kind of environment you could be screwed for the rest of your life.
2007-01-29 20:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋