She said me harsh and blunt words. How to respond?

Question

I asked my friend for a help many times. She helped a few times but later naturally she became irritated when I continued to ask her more help. She said a few harsh, blunt and mean words which hurt me much (it has been two weeks). Now, how should I react her when I meet her? How should I behave with her now? Should I ignore her or try to continue friendly relation?

Should I expect her apology?

Or, should I apologize her for irritating much?

Answer 1

depends if u want to keep her as a friend. yes,u want 2 keep her as a friend, continue with the friendly relation
no,u dont want to keep her as a friend,ignore her
but dont say harsh blunt words to her
hate just makes more hate

Answer 2

I'be always disliked people who are too blunt, it's as if they don't care about the othr persons feelings. If I were u I wouldn't have much to do with her until she learns to be more caring about hoow she makes u feel. She shouldn't have hurt ur feelings and she really should pay more attention to what she say and the how she says it.

It's no reason to hurt a person feelings and just act as if it's nothing.

I'm a person who if u hurt my feelings and act as if it's nothing I will turn the tables and the next time say something blunt right when that person least expects me too.

And if they say something about what and how I said it I'll say well I was just saying what I feel, once they get a taste of what if feels like enough they may start to be more aware of what they say and how they make others feel.