if a guy likes you, but you think that he doent know your address, and u know he likes you, would it be creepy if he snt you flowers for valentines day? Well he is kind of my friend but i really like her and known her for 3 years! Would it seem stakerish? My friend knows where she lives, but i dont want our friendship to end just because of this
thanks
2007-01-29 11:53:37 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe u should give her the flowers personally. no it wouldnt seem stakerish.and ur friendship wont end,if shes any kind of girl ,that is
2007-01-29 12:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Sunrise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with sending the girl some flowers, especially on Valentine's day! Just do it and I'm sure it will help you finally understand if this relationship goes any further or not.
If you really like the girl don't be afraid of rejection. You can still be friends after, but at least you'll know for yourself that you have to move on and find someone else. Or she'll tell you that she's been waiting for these flowers for 3 years!!! If you don't try, you'll never know:) Good luck.
2007-01-29 12:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't seem like a stalker to me, but she might wonder how you got her address. I would make it a point to explain to her how you got her address after you send the flowers to her. I don't think that your friendship would end just because you found out her address. However, if she doesn't feel the same way about you, she might act somewhat distant around you after she gets the flowers.
I say go for it! It is a really sweet thing to do to show her that you care about her. What have you got to loose? At least this way you are trying and you won't always wonder "What if"!
2007-01-29 12:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't risk in life you won't grow.You know she's worth all the flowers in the world so send her some.Some people just send flowers to friends not just lovers, And if you feel uncomfortable after she receive them tell her they are friendship flowers.What we all want to know is What are you going to write on the card? Good luck
2007-01-29 12:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by bluemoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her the flowers, all girls like that sort of thing. If she's a true friend this will not end the friendship.
2007-01-29 11:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by Shorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that flowers will end your friendship. Just don't write a very cheesy message. Better tell her how very special she is for you, and if she doesn't have the same feelings you always can put it the way, that she is a very special friend. In my opinion she will be flattered anyway.. A very nice idea - go for it!
2007-01-29 12:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by Sauluzia 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well considering most girls love to get flowers even if it's just from a secret admirer it makes them feel special. I don't think she would really be creeped out in fact I think she would really love it and who knows it might be a start to a new realtionship for the two of you.
Good luck!
2007-01-29 12:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by emotionalyhurtmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely think you should go for it and send them to her. Girls love getting flowers. And since you made the extra effort and went out of your way to get her address I think she'd appreciate it even more. It's certainly not "stalkerish". It's sweet and romantic. More men need to do what you're doing :). She'll love it, I know it. Good luck!
2007-01-29 12:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every girl loves to get flowers and what is better if your not sure how she will react send them anonomously, she will love that even more. A dozen of peach roses with red tips is my suggestion. Red is too common! Good luck , hope it works! Claire
2007-01-29 12:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by Claire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send the flowers. A real friendship is unconditional.
2007-01-29 11:58:31 · answer #10 · answered by Jiselley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋