i have been having problems with one of my friends, i played a prank on him (we would always do that to eachother) and i just said to one of my friends that sat next to me and i kept on saying that he hated me because he never said "HI" to me that morning. but then he just got very angry and took it litterally. after a month or so he started spreading rumors about me that i don't want to say but everyone believed them. then to make matters worse all of my friends except for one believed him. i don't hate him, and he i think hates me but i am not sure because he hasn't said anyting about or to me for a long time. if u can help me then please answer this question- but no answers such as- "just ignore him" or anything like that i will not be happy about it. thanx for your time!!
2007-01-29 11:50:30 · 15 answers · asked by darkdragon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hmm.. sounds like u may have crossed the line.. altho its hard, if u value his friendship you have to approach it in a mature way and tell him how u feel. (i dont mean mushy stuff lol) just tell him u went to far and that ur sorry if u offended him!
2007-01-29 11:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really go talk to him, and clear things up. Talking is the key to happy relations between people.
I have understood very little of what has been going on between you two as you have given very little detail, but maybe the prank you played on him was just too much. Maybe saying you're sorry to have hurt his feelings will help him say he's sorry to have spread rumors about you.
If you're true friends and try and straighten things out, everything should fix.
2007-01-29 20:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by Mess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah that is really sad. did u by any chance tried to tlk 2 ur friend and let him noe that u were just playin around. i noe there are just sum pple who r sensitive, and little stuff like that get 2 them. try ur very best 2 tlk 2 this friend even if u hav 2 write him a note or even text him let him noe that u were just playin and that u realize that u hurt his feelins and u r really sorri for goin so. ask him if there is anyway that u 2 can tlk after or before skool, then tell him that u realized that ever thing started cause of u and tell him that u 2 r too much of a friend to let sumthing that little get between ur friendship. tell him that u liked it better when u were friends.if he forgives u then no more stupid jokes ok. wish u luck.
2007-01-29 20:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by sweet143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like what would help get this resolved, is to get someone to be a mediator, and the three of you meet at a time and place where you can freely talk things out. This does need to get resolved-the sooner the better. Take care.
2007-01-29 19:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a letter, and then he can read it when you're NOT standing there putting pressure on him. tell him that you regret what you did, you didn't mean for it to go so far, and that you want the opportunity to make it right.
Then, respect his decision, EVEN if it means that he no longer wants to be friends. If what you did humiliated him, he might just feel that he doesn't want to try again.
Good luck!
2007-01-29 19:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by sacanda_trina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should try talking to him. i was in a similiar situation, and once we got everything straightened out, we were friends again. but also, its not a good idea to play a prank on someone when emotions are involved.
2007-01-29 19:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how extreme the prank was. You may have done something to really hurt him. You should ask him to please talk to him and tell you how he feels. I don't know if this will work for a guy, but you should try.
2007-01-29 19:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by funkyclarinette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to confront him if you want it to end. just let him know that you meant it as a joke but if he keeps doing it after that then it's his fault. ya, sometimes you have to know where peoples limits are on joking, some can take more when some can't.
2007-01-29 19:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by yaabro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and do not listen to other people.It is the only way to solve it.Sounds corny but communication is the key
2007-01-29 19:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by unbelievable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to know what he is thinking and about you friendship. Just go to the source and ask him yourself.
2007-01-29 19:54:48 · answer #10 · answered by Shorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋