i'm chubby, like 150 and i'm 5'7...i lost 5 pnds but that was thrown in my face today...i went to get some cloths for an interview i have tomorrow and with my thinking wow i lsot 5 pnds i thought there were some particular closths i could wear..well nope! i got so depress it asnt even funny! my question is what do U do to get ur spirits up again? thank u!
2007-01-29 11:50:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Girls thank you so much...i cried jsut reading ur responses! lol i guess i kinna lost some water weight!
2007-01-29 12:05:44 · update #1
it's hard to be over weight.. obese or even a bit chubby and not have it thrown in your face.. remember who you are and what you're made of.
I could say of how well we are off having clothing in the first place opposed to those who don't but that's not the kind of stuff that makes you feel better.. just a little guilty..
suggestion: strip down to your underwear.. put on a happy dance tune.. and dance in your living room :) lol be proud to be a beautiful woman rather than someone or something fake. You obviously worked hard for that 5 pounds so celebrate it! who cares what others think. its wat you think. and what you feel.
make the most of it :)
Good work!
2007-01-29 11:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by sourcherry119 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try to think happy thoughts, at 5'7", 150 is not a bad weight, you do not have to be a toothpick!! I find that trying on clothes, when I was heavy, was very depressing, and should be avoided, it is not fun. Just find some thing professional looking that is flattering on you, forget what the size says, in fact get a sharpie, and change the number if that makes you feel better. You want to feel good about yourself, so you will be confident, and ace that interview. Good luck, I'm sure you will look and do great!!
2007-01-29 11:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on losing your weight... I also struggle with my weight.. but what gets my spirits up is going to the gym and working out for a bit.. I know that it might be difficult for some, but believe it or not, you actually feel better knowing that you have done a little bit extra to get yourself healthy...
I saw a friend of mine yesterday that had lost 25kgs... she had always struggled with her weight.. but she finally lost it with exercise and healthy eating... I kinda felt jealous (but not envious or hateful.. I was still happy for her) that she had lost the weight and I hadnt.. but I went to the gym and felt much better knowing that I could lose it too, if I just worked towards my goal...
You'll get there Hun! For the moment just think to yourself that you can do it too..
2007-01-29 19:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To you I say, CONGRATS losing weight is not easy for most, but YOU lost 5lbs, you have proved to yourself you can do it. I've lost 20lbs my strategy is I think of foods that make me fat as paydays I get paid every 2 weeks so I eat whatever I want on my payday , But I dont eat those foods any other days of the week. As time has passed I find I crave them less and less. Dont push yourself to hard cuz you'll get discouraged just take it one day at a time and try to keep busy, If your busy your not at the fridge. I wish you the best of luck!
2007-01-29 12:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by ♥NEVAR♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 04:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by fogleman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For most women, ten pounds equals one dress size; that's why your five-pound loss -- while a good start -- just wasn't enough to make a difference in the dressing room.
Think of it this way: You lost five pounds. You *know* you can do it, therefore you know you can do it again. So do whatever worked -- do it again.
Best of luck to you.
2007-01-29 11:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get back some excerise to boost your spirits, and then put on some sweats, what a movie and some Ben and Jerry's FY. I struggle too, 5'4 and 140. It will pass.
2007-01-29 11:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by Tara B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When I feel depressed about my weight I do things that I enjoy and remind myself that I have alot better attributes...
Hope this make you feel better, I can relate, and great job on your weight loss.
2007-01-29 11:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by Rock N Roll HootchieCoo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont care be happy i would rather have meat then be bone skinny take queen latifuh for example shes beautiful and shes over weight...she just shows you u can still be big and dress sexy and cute
2007-01-29 11:54:21 · answer #9 · answered by someonesboo2006 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
laugh if you can laugh the whole world laughs with you !cry and you ll cry alone!I also am what i like to call pleasantly plump!
2007-01-29 11:55:17 · answer #10 · answered by revdauphinee 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋