This girl at my school wants to take a class with me at a different school. (just to get out of her last two periods at the end of the day, and so that her mom won't make her take it in the morning.)
She is rude to me, spreads rumors about me and, uses words i don't apprieciate--and she is LOUD!
how do i tell her that i don't want her to take this class with me. I want to be nice but i don't want her to come with me!
HELP!
2007-01-29 11:12:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
without meaning to be horrible, it sounds to me like you are a little intimidated by this girl, and afraid of her reaction when you tell her what you are thinking. Don't avoid the issue. The only way to get what you want is to tell her, but you do have the advantage. 1) She is already mean to you, so what difference will it make if you upset her, 2) You can choose the time that you tell her, so either choose a place where you are alone so that if she is loud, the only person to hear will be you, or choose a time when she is alone and you have a friend for support. She may not feel as intimidating then. Also, just don't give her any more information about it, and change the subject if she begins to talk about it. Have some 'ready prepared' responses in your head so that she won't be able to catch her off guard and you'll be ready for her. Keep this in your mind- SHE IS NOT YOUR FRIEND, SHE DOESN'T MIND UPSETTING YOU SO WHY SHOULD YOU MIND UPSETTING HER? Good Luck!
2007-01-29 11:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First step, grow a backbone!... then tell her "Yo B I T C H,,, you're rude to me, spread rumors about me and, use words i don't apprieciate--and you're LOUD! Step off!"
Caution, only a MAN can use this method.
2007-01-29 11:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by theevillink 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her like it is. Tell her you don't want to take this class with her because she's a jerk. It sounds mean but if we were always nice to everyone we'd never get anywhere in this world. That's just the way it is.
2007-01-29 11:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be nice when you can be direct. Just take the classes that you want to take and don't share the information with her. Tell her that your education take priority over your social life and you don't want to be sidetracked by her.
2007-01-29 11:23:26 · answer #4 · answered by workingclasshero 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she is rude, too talkative, too gossipy and you really rather not have her around you. You would like to take the class by yoursekf, no offense, but that's the way it is.
2007-01-29 11:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really you can't tell her that. You can just take the class and not give a hoot about what she does and says though.
2007-01-29 11:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you would rather not work with her as problems could arise'..tell her you need to take this class' and want to take it by yourself...if she goes'it;s gonna be harder on you to study,,,,let the bigmouth go solo,,,,good luck,,
2007-01-29 11:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by Cami lives 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say that in the interest of both you and her, that you think working together is a bad decision, as she does not treat you with the respect you deserve. good luck with your problem! =)
2007-01-29 11:17:16 · answer #8 · answered by ?s @ Y! Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple: You don't like her, so just say,"Sorry, but I can't. AND even if can't, I wouldn't want to." Simple.
2007-01-29 12:12:42 · answer #9 · answered by Renee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋