2007-01-29 11:02:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
yes. they must have had their reason. I have no right to judge. I'd just be gald they are no longer in pain.
my uncle killed himself, so I understand suicide of a loved one.
(I think it is selfish to want someone to live in suffering so you feel happy)
2007-01-29 12:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes....that does not exclude the actions of the person. That does not dissolve the anger for such a waste of life,nor does forgiveness give the suicide absolution.
Forgiveness does not condone the actions of another, it releases the pain of both parties to Sheol where it belongs.
2007-01-29 22:23:31 · answer #2 · answered by the old dog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would i actually think you have to be very brave to commit suicide i certainly don't think it's a cowards way out! could you take a rope and jump or slice your wrists? i know i could'nt 1. i would be to scared to die 2. i couldn't bear the pain and 3.i am a big wimp. i really do think you have to be going through some mega pain deep inside and if they feel that they can't go on and are prepared to leave all there loved ones behind then i think thats brave i think it's the ones who are left behind that are selfish for not forgiving them!! they had reasons and are obviously happier on the other side if there is one so people should celebrate the life they had and not always blame them for leaving them behind cause thats all it is they are selfish cause they didn't want to be left alone they are not actually thinking of the persons feelings or why they did it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-30 13:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by hayley d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forgive them, but I would blame myself, especially if I were close to them, or someone else, that we couldn't help prevent it. You'd have to understand the reason they did this was because they were unhappy with something about themself or their life. You just have to realize that they are happy now, hopefully, even if they did hurt you and several others.
2007-01-29 19:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by uhd0rableo8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You would HAVE to forgive eventually, if you ever want to experiece peace again.
Hard to do, though. Just remember that the forgiveness is for YOU, so that you can move on.
2007-01-29 19:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by JOURNEY 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes. and i would remember them for their happy times and when they were enjoying themselves. i would wish that i could have helped them and wish i could have prevented them. but i would not be angry or mad at them for doing it. i would understand that they have had as much as they can take of what life had thrown at them and know that its what they chose to do and had thought about it. there is nothing to forgive and i would hope they knew i would always remember them for who they were and not as someone who is mearly gone.
and hope one day i would be able to see them again and ask why? but i am almost positive that they had thier reasons for doing it
2007-01-30 06:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by louise h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes...even though its hard..but think of how desperate they must=st have been to do that in th e first place ...why be angry at someone who didn't see any other way
2007-01-29 19:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by blazing_staruk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I just wish I could have said good bye face to face.
2007-01-29 19:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by Lynda S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but I would be very sad and sometimes very angry at them, especially if they were a close friend or family member.
2007-01-29 19:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by camm300 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i t would depend on why they commited suicide.
2007-01-29 20:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by TS100N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋