A.. A husband who is hot looking,has a higher sex drive then you and makes TONS of money BUT who has a lousy attitude towards life and people..or A husband who is average looking,has a lower sex drive then you(but still satisfies u sexually) and who doesnt make much money BUT has a great attitude with life and people.
2007-01-29 10:14:48 · 30 answers · asked by lauren l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i mean from another married woman not to another married woman lol
2007-01-29 10:18:16 · update #1
Been happily married 16 yrs and my wonderful husband is number 2
2007-01-29 10:36:08 · update #2
Been happily married 16 yrs and my wonderful husband is number 2
2007-01-29 10:36:11 · update #3
Who wants to be married to a jerk? Looks aren't everything. And they don't have to look like a movie star to be attractive or sexy!
2007-01-29 10:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by .*AnNa*. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-29 11:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by chas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so its plainly obvious that husband number 2 would be the better choice. Look at the big picture-Looks will fade-money comes and goes but love should last forever. A younger woman may choose number 1 because of the status and appearance but a real woman or a thinking woman would go for number 2 because he may not be able to give her the world but he can sure treat her good and make her feel like she is on top of the world. Number 1 is the type of man that scares me, he doesn't seem to be stable whereas number 2 seems like he would give stability. Go with number 2
2007-01-29 10:34:14 · answer #3 · answered by Pegi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely want a man with a good attitude and a selfless and kind spirit. My husband is average-looking, his body isn't great, and as for sex, we're both still learning. He works at a grocery store but is taking classes at the community college so he can get a better job. All that stuff doesn't matter because I like his character. I like who he is as a person. He's a good man and I know he'll make a good father some day. That's worth millions compared to the superficials. I'm proud to walk down the street with him on my arm and I wouldn't trade him for the world!
2007-01-30 04:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by gafpromise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The second husband. Why? He is the type of man who will bring the best out of you. Make you feel like a women that you are.The first husband going to make you depress. You can't have a relationship with his looks that just something to look at. In really how long are you going to look at a cute face, in admire it everyday. Your not because of his attitude toward life and people.Always being negative. And if you had children with a man like that your children are going to be native. Looks can only take you to the first steps then it's the personally of a person.After you spent money in have everything you want, then what. Your stick with a person who hates life. As the second husband who may not have a hole lot of money knows how to enjoy life. In at the end you want to be happy.
2007-01-29 10:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A great attitude towards life and people wins hands down. Looks are superficial and a satisfying sexual life is very important - you can find ways to get him interested more often surely!!!
No amount of money is worth living with someone with a lousy attitude to life and especially to people. You knew all that anyway - didn't you!
2007-01-29 10:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by esspee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married I guess that qualifies me. I would rather have the second one. Because If he has a lousy attitude toward life and people then he would treat me like crap and I couldn't handle that. As for not having alot of money, dosen't matter. Because the more money you have the more things you get, the more money you spend even if you don't have it, the more bills and debit you have.
2007-01-29 10:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A hot looking husband with a higher sex drive than I...already did it for me!!!
Nothing a little attitude adjustment from the female persuasion couldn't cure on the other issues.
2007-01-29 10:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me I will take the attitude that is great. Money can come and go, things change but attitude laughter fun that will keep me happy and content. Along with the tad lower sex drive you cannot have everything.
2007-01-29 10:29:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take your second description any day over the first one. Who wants to be married to someone who feels lousy towards life and others? I'm afraid I would be included in his ill feelings of life and people. I would be happy to spend the tons of money, though.
2007-01-29 10:21:47 · answer #10 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and I know most women would say Husband #2. Because I don't know any woman who would want to be with a guy if he's a jerk, even if he is good looking. Because what we see on the outside isn't what's important, it's the personality.
2007-01-29 10:25:20 · answer #11 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋