Its realy hard because they blank me and i am tried of trying to make conversation when i get just one word responses. I am a christain and i know i am not a bad person and i don't need to hate any of them they just behave like sheep. I am outcasted like class loser. I have a sense of humour and I want to be able to stay strong and be brave. I have worked with men in the work place and they behave normal. These boys all act like i have a diease they will catch sitting on the otherside of the classroom. I feel angry all the time and want to shout some home truths about them being sheep and not individuals. I am at least 10 years older then them. I find myself so frustrated with situation and end up crying when i get home. Always putting on a brave face. It not good to be female or show feelings in the class. Its hard to get up and do presentations on because they talk more about you then they do to you. I have another 3 years to go as I just started this.I do I stay strong and brave.
2007-01-29 10:14:15 · 5 answers · asked by Sora 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you just started then sit back and be yourself. Watch the students come and go. Don't try to be popular, let popular come to you. Talk to people, even the ones you think are oddballs, they know others. Get to know everyone, soon you will become nonthreatening and someone the smart cool people will want to know. The ones that stay, face it, its pay school, they aren't all going to make it. Concentrate on your school work and in class be shy but speak out now and then. Be sure of yourself and the professor will notice you. When that happens you'll find the the cool smart people will notice you. In no time at all you'll become someone everyone wants to know.
2007-01-29 10:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are at university to STUDY not make FRIENDS.
Quit the "I am a Christian" crap. You are NOT a Christian when you walk into an exam. You are a STUDENT. Unless you are studying the Bible, leave your religious prejudice at home.
It is not a human right to make people be your friend. Nobody on this planet is obligated to like you just because you are a minority.
If you don't like it, quit your studies and set up an Asian support group.
Maybe they don't like you because you think they're like 'sheep'. If someone called me a sheep, or gave me an indication they thought that I was a "sheep" I'd have NOTHING to do with them.
Let 19 year-old 'boys' (they are young men, really - not 'boys' - maybe that is a part of your problem) be themselves. You are 10 years older and should be more mature. You are not a high school student. Stop acting like one.
2007-01-29 18:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by Just Ask Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
try to put on a brave face.. i would imagine many would want to consider you a mentor. i went back to school when i was 23 and everyone else was 18-20. i established myself as a mature classmate who was on top of things. but at the same time, i always tried to get people to treat me as if i was their age.. try to fit in, try to organize little social events. ask a few classmates to lunch and give them a chance to get to know you and accept you, so they won't feel awkward or judgemental towards you.. if you appear comfortable and confident, then people will perceive you as equal and normal and treat you as such..
2007-01-29 18:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it because you are asian or because you are older? often at 18-19 people only really bond with their own age...maybe you are too mature for them...I hope it's not racial. Wo bu shi zhongren danshi wo hui shuo yidian(r) putonghua. ne ni?
2007-01-29 18:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure they're not attracted to you? Guys will act weird when they are.
And yea. It's just a class. You probably won't see them again.
2007-01-29 18:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by girl with a gun 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋