2007-01-29 10:02:41 · 22 answers · asked by Whats Up? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, because it is such a different type of bond that it is made to make a marriage stronger. I am not saying it is easy.
2007-01-29 10:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by sweet pea 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with not being a virgin before marriage because if the person really wants to have sex and they don't see marriage in their future anytime soon they are allowed to have intimacy and passion in their lives. Those that give their virginity to their spouse isn't a bad thing either and there isn't anything wrong with being a virgin when you get married. When a person loves someone and they really want to do it and their not married doesn't make it wrong if it was wrong then there would be even more marriages these days and even higher divorce rates.
2007-01-29 18:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a personal choice, but I would recommend not being a virgin. There is a time for everything. I think that there is a certain age you should start having sex (around 17), so that you can have a little more understanding about the whole thing. But I think that if you get married without knowing your partner you will run into serious problems, because even thought sex is not everything in a relationship, it is a BIG part. If you have several partners before you find the "one" then you will also get to know yourself, and realize what you like or dislike. But always try to make love and not just have sex :D
2007-01-29 18:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by Bella Black Rose 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was not a virgin when I was married. For me I believe it was the best decision. B/c I experienced what it was like to be w/ different types of men, and now that I am married I know that I am missing out on nothing. As long as you love the person, and it feels good, there is no better kind of sex.
2007-01-29 18:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by ksueditz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might have waited. Long story...
I met my future husband only days before I lost my virginity.
If he had talked to me more the night I met him I might have waited to be with him. But his friend talked him out of talking to me because he already had a gf. I was 16 then and he was 20. We did not meet again or start dating until I was 18 and he was 22. I have always wondered why it happened like that. We have been married for 6 years. Wait cause it could be around the corner.
2007-01-29 18:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by Jen of Eve 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, no. Sexual compatibility is something that's equally emportant as intellectual compatibility, lifestyle compatibility, romantic compatibility, and friendship compatability. If you've not had sex, and if you've not had sex with your future spouse, you may be in for lots of disappointment (but then again, you may not be). But that's not a risk I want to take "forever."
I'm not a "playa," but I think I'd have to sleep with someone before marrying her.
(And Christianity's teachings here, while somewhat helpful for safety and disease reasons, are largely irrelevant, since the average life expectancy was something like 35 and people got married at 12, 13, 14... there was no sex outside of marriage because you were married by the time you went through puberty!)
2007-01-29 18:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by Perdendosi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont believe because it could sound very noble and possibly make your parents happy but what happens if u realise it all wasnt what u expected. what happens if after marriage and u realise ur partner doesnt satisfy u realy. are u going to go hoping for satisfaction or are u going to stay until u cant stand it anymore?. sorry my answer is all about sex and satisfaction but marriage has to do with a lot of it too. so dont be naive. then again, it just my opinion. u can find out for yourself.
good luck.
2007-01-29 18:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by joanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married, but I believe that a couple should be virgins on their wedding day, because God created sex to be between a husband and wife AFTER they are married.
The only exception I can give to that is if both people in the couple were married before and their spouse died, and they remarried.
2007-01-29 18:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way!! would you buy a car without driving it? sex is so important in a relationship, even more so than money, who cares if the bills aren't getting paid as long as your getting laid, I know it sounds kind of stupid but it is true, nothing worse the being in a relationship where the sex is bad. or there is no sex at all. what if you marry him and he sucks in bed. not only that how would you know he sucks? you have nothing to compare it too, and in the end you start to wonder what sex with someone else would be like, get the picture, go for a few test drives while your still young.
2007-01-29 18:35:32 · answer #9 · answered by Sir Hard & Thick 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I really believe in waiting for marriage to have sex. Not for religious reasons- but I as a female living in the times that we do, I feel it's better to have your virtue intact than soiled by ex-lovers who can taint your reputation for making a bad choice.
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2007-01-29 18:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by Lerat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋