I lost my virginity to a fool about a month ago and I still can't stop thinking about it. It runs on in my head. Now I'm thinking of more pity on other things, such as my dad being in prison not seeing him for 6 years. Also now I'm losing a close friend because of an arguement of me no longer being the maid of honor since I have not so a large a house for a bridal shower. We've been through tons of sh!t, I think more bad than good. Friends since '91 in grade school. All this is making me feel more sad when I'm not doing much. That is often since it's winter and I live alone.My friends that I still have are probably asleep.One of them actually asked me out and that's rolling around in my head. I turned him down and it's cool, we're friends. My mind is zooming in circles. Im in a math class in college doing math I haven't done since grade school. One sad thought is leading to another. I'm becoming afraid if my stess gets too high I'll have a seizure since Im epileptic. What should I do?
2007-01-29 09:49:27 · 1 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You'll never "get over this." Our experiences are what make us who we are. It is not a matter of getting over or forgetting. It is a matter of learning where our past decisions have placed us and learning to readjust and be happy with what we have become (dispite all the crap that happens to us).
Try stepping back, getting a good counselor and trying again...Best Luck.
2007-01-29 16:48:18 · answer #1 · answered by Nilo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋