because of my mental health difficulties i find it difficult to go out anywhere. social anxiety, panicky feelings, paranoia, low self esteem, very low) inner rage feelings. inferiority feelings. and dark morbid thoughts. and constant racing thoughts rule my life at the moment. i have contact with the outside world mainly through the internet, and myspace and this site. the net sheds a little light in my very dark life..ive made a few contacts through myspace and added them to msn..however i dont no how to chat to them. im fearfull of them rejecting me, my insecurities and low self worth always comes through in someway. plus im a very obsessional, needy, clingy person, and the girls ive had brief encounters with always end up rejecting me and leaving me. going offline never to come online again. and i feel gutted.. why does rejection damage me so? i feel the overwhelming need to be wanted, accepted and loved and needed. but that never happens to me
2007-01-29 09:49:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
if u want girls like u, just be urself, and honest, and faithful.
everybody has a little social phobia and in some people are more.
I was exactly like u, couldn't talk to girls, chat , or go out,
don't waist ur money to see a psychologist, instead go out and spend ur money for a girl. =)
If u need more help , ur welcome to chat with me
Usually people like u need more attention
2007-01-29 10:39:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've asked one of the terrific question of times I too am wondering where to go & all to say is build up a confidentance and may-be study as to whats it is I too would like to see how this plays out ? Anyway I get 2 points by answering X our fingers that some good educational advice will come from this.
2007-01-29 18:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably need to work on your own issues for a while and not worry too much about getting in a relationship....a great book is "the anxiety and phobia workbook"
until you build up your confidence some, sorry, but you risk coming off as too needy, and no one wants that.......once you're happier with yourself, you'll be ready......you don't have to wait until you're 100% cured, but I would work on it for a while first
2007-01-29 17:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by renee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you try to start a relationship with another person, you need to sort out your problems first. For this you should seek professional help.
2007-01-29 18:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by cillymoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have extreme anxiety, and you are dppressed. go see a phyciatrist.
2007-01-29 17:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by !♥~FaY9512~♥! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋