Why is she acting like this???

Question

ok.so.here's the problem.there's this girl in my college who has a huge crush on me. last term she came and told me how she felt abt me,plus she asked me if i felt the same way abt her.(she was sweet,quite pretty & a really nice person).i would have yes.but i wasn't looking for a relationship then,plus the fact i was still getting over another girl.i told her that & i also told her that we could still be friends.
now this term,she doesn't even talk to me as she used to before,though i know for a fact that she doesn't have any hard feelings on me(she told me she understands everything & that she's ok with it).we don't meet much since we don't take any classes together.(just during break & while passing through the hall)in the past,she used to sometimes come upto me,but not now.by what my friends have told me(she's even made a card for my b'day though i know for a fact that she's not planning anything special with me in mind for valentine's day)
i'm confused.why's she acting like this?

Answer 1

Well, you did tell her you weren't looking for a relationship. And it sounds like she was just that serious about you.

Also, she probably wants to give you space so you can get over your last gf!

Answer 2

The day after you figure a woman out, you will win the Nobel Prize for curing cancer.
The fact of the matter is, for every few babes that will play their silly little games with you, at least one exists who will not. Screw her, stop wasting yer time, and get yourself a fresh piece.
Dr Gonzo's orders.

Answer 3

I think if your really concerned about it, why can't you take some
initiative and start some conversations with her. It kinda sounds like your waiting around for her to do the work any relationship whether it be just friends or boyfriend girlfriend takes two people.

Answer 4

Because she's not a mind reader. Girls are funny that way. Perhaps she wants you to make the first move and not appear desparate. You will only know if you try.