Theres this guy at school that i like and today at school his BEST friend came up to me and asked if we could talk in private, and then when we were alone( i know him pretty well and were friends, and we talk alot so i didnt think anything of it) i ask him "wats up" and he comes up to me AND KISSES ME! and then he tells me he loves me (interesting day right?) and i was kind of in major shock at that point (considering that was my first kiss and all..)so he then asks me if i'll be his girlfriend, and like i said i was kind of standing there like an idiot and the only thing i could think of to say was "can i think it over?" and he says i think somthing like "take your time" and then (heres another shocker) i turn around and THERE IN THE DOORWAY IS THE GUY I HAVE A CRUSH ON!(about at that time i felt like i was about to keel over) and i was completly embarrased, wouldnt you be? so i slipped by him and he kind of stared at me when i walked by... and i still feel light headed from it all..
2007-01-29 09:36:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and ive also been thinking since then about it all,and the whole crush thing and im really confused feelings wise now, casue i dont really know how i feel about eaither of them now, i think i might even be falling for my crush's friend, ive never actually thought about him in that way but now that i do...IM SOO CONFUSED!
2007-01-29 09:39:33 · update #1
I'd go out with the kid that kissed you. If he's already talked to his friend, and they're good friends, you probably have no shot at all with your crush.
then again, maybe the second guy knew you had a crush on him and wanted to tell you "no" in a way that left both of you innocent. So he had his friend ask you out, knowing you'd say no. That way you couldn't with good conscience ask him out. Otherwise you'd be that chick that comes between friends, and those relationship NEVER work out.
Think about it, you talk to your best friend about this guy you really like. She says go for it, then a week or so later your see your guy blissfully kissing your best friend. How long would best friend remain best friend?
Like I said, go out with the kids who kissed you. Either it will backfire on them or maybe you'll find yourself having a good time. If I had a dime for every time I thought, "DAM I shoulda' picked her instead!" I'd be rich.
Good luck.
2007-01-29 09:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by albion53151 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guess it wasn't as private as he let on. This seems too real to just be a mere coincidence. Are you sure he wasn't setting you up with his friend watching the whole time? Maybe he was trying to make his best friend jealous. After you regain your composure try to think this through. Are you sure you would want to be serious with someone who drops a load of drama on you like this? You need to find out what makes this guy tick. He sounds a bit over much. When you get it sorted out you can explain it to the guy you really like; as in you were coerced into this sham and it wasn't your fault.
2007-01-29 17:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, politely turn down your crush's friend. Otherwise, you'll never have a chance to go out with your crush without potentially breaking up their friendship. Secondly, drop a small hintto your crush that you like him.
This is the best I can do, as this is a very awkward situation, but I hope it helps.
Best of luck,
LaughAttack
2007-01-29 17:42:32 · answer #3 · answered by Ask Tara 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u really like the guy go for it and get with him.if u think that u will be getting with the guy u have a crush on then just tell the guy that kissed u that u really have thought about it and that u just want to stay friends with him.
2007-01-29 17:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by tinkerbell_32313 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually never mind the first thing i said, if you like the guy that kissed you, try him, if hes a jerk dump him and tell the guy that you like(d) he's awsome and you wanna be his girfriend. Try www.myjellybean.com its a girl's bff
2007-01-29 17:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by Brasilian_cutie_pie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First ask your crush why he gave you that look!
then tha convo make get interesting !!!!!! if he likes you too then go with him. but awhh your friend that kiss you seem soo sweet. i think you should go with him.
2007-01-29 17:40:56 · answer #6 · answered by . 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just need to take your time to think about how you really feel about either of them.
2007-01-29 17:44:23 · answer #7 · answered by afrodite 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore both of them, and chase someone else. It will make you seem self confident, and they will chase you more.
2007-01-29 17:39:37 · answer #8 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋