Andy is not my husband! He is just a person I met on my space.I placed an a spot on there saying that I was single.My real husband is kelly we have been together for 11 yrs.I have done him wrong so many times that I lost count. kelly has a heart of gold even after all that i have done to him, he has always been there for me to pick me up an make the hurt that these other guys do to me go away. My kids are hurt by the things I do just as much as kelly is.Andy wants me to marry him an he thinks kelly is my x and that I just live with him to have roof over my head an be with my kids.I tell kelly if he says any thing to him that he well never see his kids again. kelly has told me that andy is living in the lie that I have told him. he live 6 hours away an that he can not be in love with someone that he has never met. that the only thing andy is wanting is in my pants an thats the only reason he is saying that he loves me. So what am I? why do I do kelly like this I really do love him HELP
2007-01-29 09:20:06 · 8 answers · asked by Angie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1. explain this to Andy
2. Andy could be one of those kidnapping freaks
3. Get your act together
4. You think that you want a more romantic life. That's why u r doing this.
5. You have an romantic aspiration but don't know it. if u feel dazed or in luv sometimes, then yeah, u do have the romance need. I think that u are a person who wants romance so bad, that u forget yourself.
6. You should apologize to Kelly.
2007-01-29 09:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by STrawberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are is youre in love with the idea of being in love. Andy is representing an unknown exciting new guy while maybe your marriage has gotten into some kind of a rut that lacks the exact same things that Andy represents. Its only a pipe dream per se. Its the distance between you and Andy that keeps this thing going, because if you two ever met the mystique would be gone along with the feelings. Remember its not having what you want but wanting what youve got. Repair the damage with Kelley and forget Andy and dont get into this predicament again. Good luck
2007-01-29 17:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can start by stop lying and cheating... dont ask your self why?? just stop, and kelly is absolutly right this dude just want a tripp in to your pants and after that the magic of my space is going to turn in to your worst nightmare.. specially if kelly is the nice guy you've said he is.. man!! some of us are doomed to be with lying cheating bastards and no matter how hard we try, we always end up with men like that. You have a good one and you putting him trough this?? what is the matter with you?? The day that man decided his had enough and he will believe that... he is going to leave you and after you loose him you have no idea how empty and sad you are going to feel.. how frustrated is going to be when you try over and over to get him back and get nothing from him in return but the words I DONT TRUST YOU.... you better wake up and smell the coffee good men are hard to find.. and you have one.Every men after him is going to dog you out... and you are going to feel sorry. I hope you change and stay with kelly and if you cant stop what you doing then let him go.. do the right thing.. take in consideration that he deserve better than what you are offering. I hope you do the right thing.. good luck.
2007-01-29 19:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please stop doing that to yourself and your family. You need to end it with Andy and work on you and your husband. I know this from experience. I didn't get the validation that I thought I needed from my absolutely wonderful husband, and eventually left him. Life is completely different. Our children have suffered more than we have. If I could take it all back I would give my life too. I learned the hard way just exactly how much I truly love my ex-husband and am still trying to learn to pick up and go on. It's been over a year and not a day goes by that I don't get at least teary eyed because I am so sad without my best friend, partner, lover, and husband.
2007-01-29 17:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by dancing11freak 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell andy the truth that kelly is your husband that your still kelly's wife forget andy and think about your husband and your children or get a divorce and marry andy thats up to you you know which one make's you happy
2007-02-02 15:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you just like the attention and the validation that other men give you. Does your "real husband" not give you enough attention? If you are not going to treat him right then you should let him go. If you really love him then you would want him to be happy.
2007-01-29 17:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by jenw1403 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get Counseling
2007-01-29 17:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by dreamsga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE SERIOUSLY TWISTED. GO GET HELP. YOU ARE PSYCHO!!!
2007-01-29 17:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by sweetbabykitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋