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i said i would be there for him emotionally and its taking a toll on me,i know its not my situation but it sucks to see him down about this,and what hurts me is that he won't tell the baby's mama he has a girlfriend and his excuse is cause he doesn't want drama from her incase the baby is his and another thing is that he won't take a paternity test cause he wants the other possible dad to take it 1st,tell me how stupid that sounds,i spoke to him about this many times already and he insists on doing it his way and letting this crap drag

2007-01-29 09:11:00 · 6 answers · asked by cookiesssssssssss 3 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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You don't need this either. You want to be there for him, but is he doing anything for either himself or you? He's the one making this hard. When he has the baby, have him take the baby down for a paternity test. How long do you want to deal with this? Unless you're into drama, move on. Someday he may wise up/grow up and be ready for a relationship, but he's not ready now. Don't you deserve better?

2007-02-02 05:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1 0

Ahhah, he wants the first guy to go first so that there is the possiblity it eliminates him as being the Dad, he won't tell the baby's mom that he has a girlfriend "incase the baby is his", does that he mean he MAY consider reuniting with Mom? Of course he wants to do things "his way", his way allows everything to hang in the balance. No committment to you, to baby and permits the open door for possibility to resolve issues with Mamma.

2007-02-06 06:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think you need to step away from this person and this relationship. I know you think the right thing to do is to stick by him, but he's not sticking by you. He's making this as hard as possible and that's his decision to make. But there's no reason why you should have to sit and worry and wait, while he pretends this child will just go away. Besides, do you really want to be involved with a man who wouldn't take responsibility for his child? The way he's treating this ex is the same way he'd treat you if you suddenly got pregnant...

2007-02-06 05:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by Vix 4 · 0 0

If he is this emotionally exhasting and your relationship is not even out in the open can you imagin the toll it will take on you when it is...when you life together...if the baby is his, and the babies mama is in his life forever? Just ask yourself if he is really worth all that, or if you could do better.

2007-02-04 11:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by LoveBats 2 · 0 0

There is a lot of crapp with this stuff men are idiots and babys mamas are dramatic , dont get too involved to protect your self and be supportive but dont lose your self

2007-02-06 06:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by cwilsonhappylife 3 · 0 0

go as far away as you can from this person he has alot of issues he is carrying and they are not good for you remember hes got a kid probably. so leave and find someone else.

2007-02-04 12:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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