I have a fiance that is always on the computer or playing xbox from the time he gets up til he goes to bed. And when he is not he is out with his cousin. he is always talking to girls. should i be worried or is he just insensative? I dont understand why i am with him when we are never together and he pays no attention to me. What should I do? I think he is more in love with his games and lap top then me... ☻
2007-01-29 09:04:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tweak, I am surprised that you accepted his proposal in marriage. Dump him and find someone who wants to spend time with YOU.
2007-01-29 09:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by Da Tiebreaker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not happy in the relationship then get out. I know it is hard when you have been with someone for a long time but if he is not paying any attention to you then you would be better off by yourself. Besides being single can be fun!
2007-01-29 17:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should try to spend more time with him. Ask him to go to the movies of something like that. If that doesnt work, sit him down and ask if he really loves you or if he has other feelings for another girl. And dont you think that its weird going out with his cousin?
Good Luck!
2007-01-29 17:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Have a boyfriend with the same problem. he constantly is playing xbox live...i make him have date nights with me where he isn't allowed to touch the game console and we got out and do something for US. if he is talking to girls you need to address him and be like what are talking to these girls about,who are they,etc? if he doesn't like it or is hiding something from you its time to pull the cord on your relationship!
2007-01-29 17:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by KT! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why burden yourself unnecessarily and before thing getting worse discuss the matter with him openly.If worse come to worse break the engagement and fill a replacement.Make sure it is the right one.
2007-01-29 17:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by batu5001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think things over very carefully before you get married. If he is like this now he isn't going to change. Is this what you want for the rest of your life? If not you need to get rid of him now.
2007-01-29 17:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by DL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just talk to him about how you feel.Just jump in front of the TV and start talking.If he doesn't want to listen then move on.
2007-01-29 17:11:42 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he needs to grow up.doesn't he have a job?if he cared about you,he would make you first in his life not is stupid video games.
2007-01-29 17:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by slim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do man do this?
Men do this because they're not interested in the one their with or bored with their life.
2007-01-29 17:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by onecutebyrd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont' marry him. He sounds insensitive and immature and will only break your heart.
2007-01-29 17:09:01 · answer #10 · answered by stripedbook 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋