am i a loser??? well i know im not but i dont have more than 4 friends
2007-01-29 08:59:40 · 15 answers · asked by michelle s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
baby girl, being popular is over rated. the last thing you want is to be in the popular crowd. bunch of pretentious people. have 4 close friends who like you the way you are. they are priceless. don't worry about a thing. just be yourself. you'll do fine.
2007-01-29 09:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not about the amount of friends you have. some people have the type of friends where there are dozens of you, while others just have a small group, it doesn't mean you are a loser. i myself prefer to have a smaller group of more closer friends rather than a larger group of friends, that looks better from the outside, but is really just a whole lot of people who dont know each other as well. You are probably just shy and scared of having others judge you, i say to hell with it! who cares the amount of friends you have, if you feel you need more go pick another one out ... walk right up to someone and start talking, if you don't want to do that, then you probably don't really want anymore friends.
2007-01-29 09:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by j_oD-i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who has time for more than four friends anyway? And are the four friends you've got not good enough for you? They would probably be upset to hear that.
If there are other people you think are interesting, talk to them. If everyone else is boring, to hell with them.
Don't waste time worrying about stuff like "popularity" or you will regret it later in life. Be thankful and enjoy what you've got. The sooner you learn to do that the more content you will be!
2007-01-29 09:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by monkeyandmolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why even worry about that? Those people you call "popuolar" have no life, labeling people is what they do. Be happy of who you are! And love all the friends you have! Be happy to know you have friends who care about you, and screw those you treat you like crap and say your a "loser".
2007-01-29 09:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be like the popular people? Ew. It is better to have a few real friends than a whole bunch of fake friends that only like you for your status.
2007-01-29 09:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i am not popular either but everyone tells me i as cool as ever. The popular people are never intresting and all they talk about themselves ( not saying that all popular people are like that). Your 4 friends are you real freinds, stick to them.
2007-01-29 09:08:37 · answer #6 · answered by some_slow_person 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't a loser. Why do you want to be popular anyways? All those people are so FAKE.
2007-01-29 09:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by Haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll find that it's not the quantity of friends that matters, but the quality of each friend. It is much easier to get really close to a small group of friends then it is to get lost in a crowd of many.
2007-01-29 09:03:51 · answer #8 · answered by Scary Monster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be more outgoing and fun to be around. Alot of people probally would love to be friends with you because im sure your a great person. Try to be more open and talk to more people..... Then you will have more friends that you need. Good luck to you :)
2007-01-29 09:06:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are not stuck up, mean, and hated by most of your peers. love who you are . and if you want to make more friends, just smile A LOT MORE, this works wonders. people will think that your'e nice and outgoing. just put yourself out there and don't be afraid to laugh at your mistakes! good luck!
2007-01-29 09:09:03 · answer #10 · answered by ehh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋