i really like boys and i am in a relationship at the moment but i sometimes imagine kissing a girl, but i would never think of doing anything more because i think its discussing. i dont get it, do you know whats going on?
2007-01-29 08:49:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
maybe you are just curious. and you are in the stage of your life where you are having identity crisis and curiosities. so its ok to fantasize or think of other girls. you can experiment, there's no harm on that, provided that you know that for every action there is an equal reaction. life is a learning process. only through experience will you really know what's going on.
2007-01-29 08:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by patric 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not a lesbian but more likely bi-curious.
It is okay to want to experiment, especially at your age (I'm guessing you are still in your teens) so if you end up in a situation where you have the chance of finding out if you actually like kissing another girl, go ahead :-)
2007-01-29 08:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
A lot of research has shown that sexuality is on a continuum. Most, if not all, people aren't really entirely gay or straight, but rather somewhat into the center. You're probably just feeling your point on the line.
2007-01-29 08:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by emily_brown18 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe what your going through is part of the Identity crisis in life that most of us face. As humans we are curious of what it's like to do something beyond our conscience, but doesn't really mean that we are labeled as so.
2007-01-29 08:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by need help 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are Bicurious honey. Dont jump the gun before you even put a bullet in it. If you havent actually engaged in a lesbian relatnshp....then you are NOT a lesbian. If you are still attracted to men...you are NOT a lesbian.
2007-01-29 08:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Whats going on is called "fantasy" and it's totally healthy..
It does not make you a lesbian..
2007-01-29 08:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by Aunt Henny Penny 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lookm my opinion is that your curios but you dont want to admit it to yourself so when when your asleep you you tend to think wat it would be like to be with a women. But that dont mean your lebian. And besides if you were wats wrong with being lesbian your still human
2007-01-29 09:21:36 · answer #7 · answered by rox_carmen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're in between. now quit getting hung up on labels.
2007-01-29 08:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by scruffy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may simply be bisexual (it happens LOL.. and I'd know)
2007-01-29 09:06:08 · answer #9 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its natural
2007-01-29 08:54:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋