2007-01-29 08:16:59 · 81 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Hell no. I already owned my own home, car and have a good job. If I could do it all over again, I would never have married him. He hasn't done **** for me or helped with the kids. He acts like an *** most of the time. I would have stayed boyfriend and girlfriend that way when he started acting like this it would have been a lot easier to get rid of him. Now it's going to be hard- all the drama of divorce, custody, etc.
2007-01-29 08:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by wrjones559_1999 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love the idea of marriage, but if I were to do it again... I'd wait 'til I was a lot older. I just feel that there isn't really a point in gettin' married until you're ready to have kids because sometimes the obligations hold you back from doing the things that you could be doing. But then again, that's life too so... regardless, everything happens for a reason and I honestly can't imagine how my life could've been without it being the way it is now.
2007-01-29 08:22:35 · answer #2 · answered by sam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A thousand times yes! I waited til I was 42 - I had gone through all my phases, done all my major changing and finally found a person with whom I could be happy for the rest of my days. Getting married in your twenties is just asking for divorce in your thirties. And getting married in your thirties, while less of a risk, is still folly. I realize early marriage is best for having children, but if you can wait...do!
2007-01-29 08:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!! I would change a million things about the wedding but I would do it all over again...been married 13 years and going strong!
2007-01-29 08:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by Laceyfromcali 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. I would have hired a surrogate mother and got by boy that way instead of having to put up with the person I married who was once beautiful but turned into a b*tch from h*ll.
2007-01-29 08:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have not rushed into it and really make the decision from my heart. I got married for all the wrong reasons. You have to find the right reasons for yourself, most importantly, love and are you both compatible, you can love someone and not be able to live with them for the rest of your life. Everyone should consider this.
2007-01-29 08:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by snicks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope! A woman marries a man thinking she can change him to suit her. A man marries a woman thinking she suits him and that she won't change. Both wind up disappointed. When this happens, marriage prevents an amicable dissolution.
2007-01-29 08:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
44 years later I have a life partner, two great kids and four grandkids. I could never have accomplished what I have without her aid and support and I have been pleased to aid and support her. If you find a good mate and make a good marriage, you may miss some experiments but you won't miss out on a good life.
2007-01-29 08:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by DrB 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes...
Your question is particularly dificult for me since I am widowed. In spite of all the pain and sadness, I have to say that getting married to my late wife was the best decision I ever made in my life.
2007-01-29 08:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by Jack Chedeville 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes! My dear man and I have been married almost six years ago. We only regret not being around when we made our first disaterous marriages.
But when we were in high school he thought I was the weirdest chick around and I thought he was a scrawny rat faced kid.
We both improved with age and got married in our forties.
2007-01-29 08:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by WhatAmI? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋