ok i know i have a gaydar cuz i can tell when it comes to guys... but wth girls its not so easy... i used to be good with telling the diffrence between the girls but not so much anymore... is there anything u could hint me with to eing able to tell the diffrence with the girls?
2007-01-29 08:16:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
im lesbian by the way...
2007-01-29 08:17:26 · update #1
It is possible that your gaydar is not functioning correctly because you can not understand. Your inability to write the english language correctly is shorting the gaydar out. Once you master spelling, the gaydar will kick-in and work correctly. See you are having a translation error. Gaydar does not understand cuz, im, ppl,u, ur, don, i,diffrence. Since you do not understand because, I'm, people, you, your, don't, I and difference, there is a communition problem between your internal gaydar processing unit and your actual gaydar sending/receiving unit. There are some other items that will produce a syntax error with gaydar, such as OMG, BTW, LMAO, plz and failing to spell things like too by using the digit 2. As soon as you adjust the communication/translation issue, your gaydar should begin working as advertised.
Thanks,
Gaydar Customer Service Department
2007-02-04 16:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have gaydar, even though I am straight. You get gaydar when someone close to you "comes out" and you replay all the subtlties your missed.
Woman appear to be different from men when it comes to the "sexuality spectrum" Kinsey talked about. Lesbianism has much more acceptance, though the "bull dykes" expression doesnt.
My point is simply this...since lesbianism has very little, outside the bull-dyke, many more woman will explore those feelings. So woman fit Kinsey's model, which is, that all sexuality exists on a spectrum, as opposed to just straight or homo. Thus, if your a very good seductress, there may be little need to "tell" if they are one or the other...
2007-01-29 08:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is very difficult to spot lesbians sometimes. There are the lipstick lesbian that can be beautiful. Girls that do not wear make up , wears jeans and some form of boots without a heel. It is easy to spots guys but a well honed in gaydar can tell. I can tell ppl that are gay without them knowing they are gay.
2007-02-04 03:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ron M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's just general feelings but some hints might be (as I'm sure you already know) are:
1. Air of confidence
2. Eye contact with you. (that's a biggee)
3. Nail length
4. personal space with another female.
5. reactions to obvious questions involving Showtime and The L Word, Melissa, gay adoption, Lilith Fair, Nancy McKeon, Jody Foster(depending on age),
2007-01-29 08:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by Greywolf 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm a male in SF..not that that matter so much, .. gay girls.. geeeze it's a hard one.. they are not so blatantly rude when showing attractions or sexual openness, and all the male gay buttheads in SF. always crossing other's personal bounderies with that 'meat market' attitude...I know there are gay chicks like this too..
(oh I live with 2 gay women and I am straight)..my house mates have said it's all in the eyes and the look.. and deeper longer stare may be signs of a attraction...and look forr the Harely chain attched to wallet..w/ rolled up sleeves..J/k...J/k
2007-01-29 08:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by Derrick Zooolander 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is more difficult to even approach other girls at the age of 13 and not risk the negative social implications associated with it. They are a lot harsher on the young. Just focus on your school work--you might have someone approach you. But, I don't recommend working on looking for or attracting fellow lesbians at your age--since, there are communities that don't support this way of life easily.
2007-01-29 08:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Women are too deceptive/manipulative for even a women to know what they are thinking.
Interesting!
Good luck with that. Here is a hint all women are open to sex with other women on some level.
Some women don't even know themselves well enough to tell you they are 100% lesbian, what makes you think you can or should be able to figure it out?
2007-01-29 08:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by Willie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Thats really hard, with women its very hard to know who is or whatever... i kinda stick to local gay clubs , bars, events, partys, friends things like that. If your someplace and you see someone you might want to talk to but your not sure, play it safe. Introduce yourself spark small talk and see where the conversation goes. If the conversation permits ask her to exchange numbers or something. If nothing else you've gained a friend.
2007-02-06 07:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by Kee-Kee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girls, i guess, would look more like guys and act MANLY.
isn't that what's it about? you know, gay or lesbian peeps act more like the opposite sex?
idk this isn't a strong sub. for me... just go with what you feel. :]
2007-02-06 01:22:58 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Random 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know some chicks looking to hook up with other chicks. Takes the guesswork out!
2007-01-29 08:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by TheHomesandLoansPro 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋