my mother doesnt want me to marry a black and shes a bigot cause of her grandma so i am i im mexican
2007-01-29 07:35:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
she sounds like a very wise, well-informed woman. you should heed her advice.
2007-01-29 10:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by Chuck_Spears 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe your mom will change her opinion when she sees her "future" grandkid. My uncle (we're Mexican) used to always say he didn't like blacks and he would never accept his daughters marrying a black guy. Guess what happened? My cousin ended up having a daughter with her black boyfriend. She's 9 now and my uncle adores her, and doesn't treat her any differently than his "Mexican" grandchildren.
2007-01-30 14:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mari76 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are your black BF or GF's parents don't want them to marry a mexican either.
2007-01-30 21:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to be a bigot, just because you have been taught these things by two generations. the fact that you asked the question means you are better off than your mama y abuela. No les hagas caso. Todos somos iguales en este mundo y el color de nuestra piel no es importante.
2007-01-29 15:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by outtahere 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
sadly enough racism is ingrained into society's wrinkled fabric. I say that you should do what makes you happy. when yr nina sees you with a great life and with a great man that supports and loves you maybe she will change her mind. My question tho...is how is a mexican racist lmao i had a mexican call me the n word and well i wont get into it but we are both beautiful minorities soon to be america's majority!
2007-01-29 15:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by Convuluted and excluded 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You cant change the minds of others- if you love someone enough to marry them then do it.
Dont worry why someone hates someone else- just know why you love them
Ignorance is bred from fear. Dont feed into it.
2007-01-29 15:45:09 · answer #6 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow that's interesting considering your grandmothers origin......I guess I had Mexico all wrong, are they a non-minority Caucasians country as well...
2007-01-29 15:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by Diamond in the Rough 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your mother is an idiot, and based on this question it looks like the apple didn't fall far from the tree
2007-01-29 20:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you've nailed the big reason...... family. (your mom and grandma and the thoughts - comming from family)
family prejudice comes from experience and belief systems.
2007-01-29 16:01:21 · answer #9 · answered by dharp66 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, that DOESN'T mean to have to listen to them. Remember, your mother is not sleeping with the man YOU ARE! don't let your mom control your sexuality!
2007-01-29 15:51:05 · answer #10 · answered by ¡El lobo del norte del fuego! 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋