my girlfriend wants to have sex with me but well im not fully devolped what the hell should i do help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-29 07:28:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
are you ready to have sex...
if not just tell her..pleasure her in a different way....
Even if you aren't "fully" developed
if she loves you..
she won't care
2007-01-29 07:39:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what you mean, but I'm guessing you don't have any pubic hair yet (usually by 13, but some not until later). I have to say that your girlfriend (is this the one that's a year older?) shouldn't be pressuring you to do something you know neither one of you is ready for. I'm also guessing that maybe she thinks because you don't have any hair down there yet that you also can't get her pregnant (and that maybe that's her interest in you). You both should know that there isn't a direct connection between the two, just like girls can get pregnant before they have their first period.
Tell her, sure, as soon as you are out of high school and have a job so you can support the baby. Whether she's really your girlfriend you'll be able to tell by her reaction. Don't be surprised if she suddenly loses interest in you, in which case consider yourself lucky!
BTW, an afterthought: if you're older than, say, 16, depending on what you mean by "not fully developed" you might want to have your doctor refer you to an endocrinologist for some simple blood tests and an evaluation. You might need some hormone shots to help you along.
2007-01-29 15:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone force you to do anything that you're not ready to do. Too many adolescents are having sex simply because they feel pressure from their peers. That's not a reason to have sex. When it's the right time, you'll know it. If you feel ready, just be honest with her and tell her what's going on. Communication and honesty are important things in a relationship. Just remember to be safe and use protection.
2007-01-29 15:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by Just Me Alone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone force you to do anything you don't want. Just because you're the "guy" doesn't mean anything. Tell her you really like her but you're just not ready.
2007-01-29 16:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by karen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your not fully "developed" then your not old enough to have sex anyways.
2007-01-29 15:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by Candice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her u dont want 2 yet. if she really loves u, then she will b willing 2 wait until u r ready.
2007-01-29 18:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by CGaleh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that u dont tink ur ready 4 dat n dont doit
2007-01-29 15:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you believe in behaving responsibly. Tell her thanks, but you will not be going down that road for a long time to come.
2007-01-29 15:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by kramerdnewf 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just tell her your not ready you don't have to tell her why just tell her" look i'm not ready for this"
2007-01-29 17:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by baby g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with her.
2007-01-30 21:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋