2007-01-29 07:28:19 · 30 answers · asked by Perplexed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1. Do not ever leave someone for someone. Leave for you. 2. Don't go into a relationship with expectations. You will just be diapointed. 3. Remember, you don't really know this man. You have never lived with him, but he has cheated and so have you. That is the only truth you knwo about each other. You have only seen his best side. If they did it to someone else they can do it again. Just like you, you have done it once, you are capable of doing it again. Keep your guard up.
2007-01-29 07:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by browneyedgirl 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ok, let's think for a minute. You want him to leave his wife to get something he's already getting with you AND her?? And then, you also should wonder, if he cheated on her with you, and he leaves her and you're no longer the forbidden other woman, how long until he has to find that thrill again? And the other way again, what makes him think you won't just find someone behind his back once he's the only one in your life?
Come on, are you serious? Either way, you'll lose your thrill appeal once you are actually his. Once you aren't someone elses wife, he'll get bored with you and move on. Let me guess, this is LOVE though? Wasn't it love when you married your husband? Or when he married his wife? Obviously, neither of you have a true concept of what it is. Seek counseling. There are no garauntees when you break the bonds of marraige. It makes your relationship a lie.
2007-01-29 15:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by WifeandMom 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Your willing to be the cause of 2 marriages breaking up? You don't care that much about your husband if your already making plans to leave him for the other married guy. If this guy leaves his wife for you chances are he will either leave you for someone better or he will have the best of both worlds you and his wife.
2007-01-29 15:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to end your marriage for another married man. I think the better question is how do you know that man is not going to cheat on you later?You are always going to wonder if he is cheating on you now if you get together. Because it doesn't sound like either one of you are faithful, so why ruin a marriage, If you are un-happy then try to work on it and if not then you should leave a marriage because it wasn't right not because you have another man. Hope that helped.
2007-01-29 15:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by amazonkittycat 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he'll not leave his wife. Do you want someone who will cheat on you later? You may be a single person when he gets tired of you and you may wished you had tried to keep your marriage together.
2007-01-29 15:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Even if he does that simply means there is a great chance that he'll leave you too.
So you are going to end your marriage so you can be with a man who may or may not end his marriage to be with you.
Personally, this doesn't seem the type of good character that is needed to build a strong marriage.
I wouldn't look forward to being with either of you personally. I mean that even if your husband is the worst man on the planet. You seem to have little regard for what marriage means if you are willing to end yours and are willing to allow him to break his vows to be with you.
If those vows are so meaningless today, then what is there to keep either of you from discounting your vows to one another tomorrow?
2007-01-29 15:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You dont know if he will leave her or not, Personally I think he is playing with your emotions and he is just stringing you along and in the end you will see that your decision was not as smart as you would have liked it to be and you will not only stuck like chuck but alone as well. Sorry if this sounds a little harsh but its true mama!
2007-01-29 15:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by bubblez23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy?
You want to be with someone who will leave his wife?
You do not know...but one thing for sure...you will know what it feels like to be miserable soon. If you leave a husband for another man that is willing to cheat on his wife...you will cry later.
Listen to what you would tell someone else.
GET A REALITY CHECK
2007-01-29 15:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by kishoti 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
you should not expect him to do that. Nor should you leave your marriage for another man, I dont care how good he makes you feel... You should definately get a divorce because you dont value your marriage enough to be in it. Then when youre actually single, find another man who is also single and go from there.
2007-01-29 15:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by Candy C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no guarantee on this. You just have to follow your heart and your good sense and ask yourself if what I have today is worth throwing away on a maybe. So many people have taken the step you are thinking of taking and have lived to regret it. I wish you luck. I urge you to talk to a councilor before making this decision
2007-01-29 15:42:22 · answer #10 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋