That rainy night we got into an argument on the street. I got carried away and started kicking his car, he drove off filled with angst while i was holding onto his window. The force of driving was so unbearable my entire body fell on the ground, i had severe bruises and scratches all over my body and non-stop nose bleeding; ambulance came because i was laying in the middle of street like a broken doll.
True he didn't hit me, but didn't moms always teach us "be gentle with girls, they are weaker and smaller"? I can't find anymore excuses to forgive him this time though he didn't literally lay his hands on me.
Am i overly reacting? Should i just walk away? I'm so angry right now that i yell/scream/hit him like non-stop. Please help
2007-01-29 07:13:09 · 7 answers · asked by Charlie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sound like you might be the one with the problem. You hit him! If you were holding on to the car window and you got hurt that is not his fault... you should have let go. He did not hit you but you have admitted to hitting him. If you are so unhappy leave!
2007-01-29 07:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sara 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can two people in Love act so violently with each other?
It seems like since you lost it so bad, you have a severe problem with your anger. And if he was able to keep driving while you were hanging on, and not caring if you were going to get run over, then he has a severe problem with his emotions, and anger as well. I think the both of you should take a vacation from your relationship. Maybe he has not hit you yet, but keep hitting him like
that, and he just might loose it too. And of course he will go to jail
not you........Is that what you want????
2007-01-29 08:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by dewhatulike 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has situations like this happened before? Just because he didnt hit you, it doesnt mean that your not being physically abused.. I was in a relationship where a guy pinned me down and pointed a fake gun to head and said, "you should thank god this isnt real.." Since he didnt hit me or punch me and i didnt have any bruises, should I have not considered that abuse? I think you should leave... Women in abusive relationships dont always leave, and for many it takes several times of them leaving before they actually do it for good... But many women don't make it to that point and end up getting killed... Is it a chance you want to take?
2007-01-29 07:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't start kicking somebody's car and hanging onto their window and not expect them to defend themselves. That's ridiculous. If you're going to act like a nutcase, you should be treated like one.
2007-01-29 07:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have an anger problem also.
The two of you do not sound like a good combination.
I would leave and deal with your own issues.
Peace out.
2007-01-29 07:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by Lucy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Soulds like he's the one who should leave you. You were the one acting crazy not him. Just my opinion...
2007-01-29 07:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by earth_magik28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him.might be difficult now,but better for you in the long run.
2007-01-29 07:17:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋