I'm not sure if he will say yes... I have a beautiful house but the bad part is that his ex lives next door and his ex still loves him. Whats the best way to ask him to move in with me? What can I do to get a "yes"?
2007-01-29 07:10:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Look for a place together, that way is "your" home and not just "him" coming to live with "you". Whatever you do, don't stay near the ex, especially if she still loves him. Move as far away as possible from that ex! Just sit down and explain to him that you love him and that you're looking to take your relationship to the next level...and so on. Good luck!
2007-01-29 07:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say have a nice conversation over dinner and discuss things. Discuss everything right up front. living arrangments, bills, household chores, pets, the ex-living next door....expectations, what to do if you should break-up...be logical and think things through and discuss without being overly emotional. By the end of the evening you both will know what you want to do.
2007-01-29 15:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful what you wish for...sounds like you have the best of both worlds to me. Once he moves in, he will think the place is 1/2 his, and it will be eventually IF the affair lasts long enough. Think before you act.
2007-01-29 15:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont... firstly men really stink when they begin to live with u. when he meets u he most probably doesnt tell u abt his toilet habits and other things u dont wannt to know. and exes are scary. he may not have anything for her but having her around when u've just faught over the toilet seat is an explosion about to happen.
2007-01-29 15:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by notinthebooks 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how about you two find a separate place together. Because you looked together and moved into it together, it will be more of both of your place, rather than him living in "your" house.
2007-01-29 15:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by Steven D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him some of your hind quarters over a romantic dinner.
2007-02-02 10:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by norb4423 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel maybe sell out your place and buy anotther
2007-01-29 15:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by bitburger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have a problem dude
2007-01-29 15:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Brooke 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋