Most of my female friends think there is nothing wrong with taking your boyfriend, fiancee, or husband to a strip club and pay for a lap dance.
2007-01-29 06:53:30 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As long as you two have a good solid trusting relationship it might be fun. I went one time with a past boyfriend to a pretty classy place and we had a good time. He was more interested in the attention the strippers were giving me than him ! If it's a decent place the ladies working there will be respectful of you and try to include you in any "requests" your husband might have. They will give you eye contact, check to make sure you are O.K. with everything. They know if you are unhappy the money will stop flowing and the two of you will leave so it's in there best interest to keep you happy. You should go - it really spiced up our night !
Just be confident and have fun !
2007-01-29 07:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both involved are comfortable go for it. But what if the man wants to go to strip clubs all the time after that? My husband doesn't care for that. He gets enough lap dancing at home.
2007-01-29 07:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy....
I don't see the problem. Most all strip clubs are "look but don't touch" affairs. What would you be worried about? The upside is perhaps he gets excited and you are the beneficiary. Certainly nothing seriously intimate will happen at the club with the "talent".
Perhaps you will think the talent is more attractive than you? Hey, there will always be someone more attractive but that does not mean they are within reach of your boyfriend. Fact is that there are other guys more attractive than him as well.
Chill.
2007-01-29 07:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by I know for sure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never in a million years would I do anything like that.
It's disgusting, degrading, and in my opinion.. any man who would even want their wife/girlfriend to do something like that has no respect for her, nor does he know what it is to be in a committed relationship.
Those places are just a step away from prostitution.. Would you pay for your husband/boyfriend to get it on with some random chick?? I doubt that.. So why would you pay for some other girl to rub all over him??
Definately not my thing, and I'm very glad that my husband has enough morals and respect for me, to not be into such garbage.
2007-01-29 07:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it would be nice. But what any man wants more is for his significant other to do the lap dance themselves. You can even pick up instructional videos to get you started.
2007-01-29 06:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me..I think it rude and ignorant. If he wanted a lap dance I'd give him one, not pay some diseased whore to do it. But like you I have had friends that think nothing of it, I guess it's whatever floats your boat.
2007-01-29 07:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife does. Hell, she gets more lap dances then I do. My wife always spends more than me at a strip club! LOL
All I can say is "IT'S FANTASY! GET OVER YOURSELF AND JUST HAVE FUN!"
2007-01-29 07:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never allow that... ever. It's like telling him that it's ok to be turned on by another woman who is right in front of him, lap dancing on him. You should be the only woman to do that. I don't like the idea of my fiance being sexual with another woman. Besides, who knows, it may make him realize that he doesn't want to onmly be with one woman for the rest of his life, but every guy is different.
2007-01-29 07:00:04 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WHY would you do that??? Talk about asking for trouble! If you are in a relationship, YOU should be giving him lap dances - NO ONE else!!! Is nothing sacred anymore??!!
2007-01-29 07:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend wanted to know what goes on there. So I took her and got HER a lap dance.
Personally, I don't see the point in those places anyway. Like going into a restaurant, ordering food, they place it in front of you, you can't touch it then they take it away. And Then you have to pay???!!?
WTF!!!!!!!!?????????
2007-01-29 07:07:39 · answer #10 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋