What would a woman who enjoys being single enjoy about being married ? What she enjoys about being single can't be part of her marriage . Why wouldn't she lose interest in being married after a while ? Wouldn't she miss the single life ? Why not marry a woman who HATES being single ? What's to stop her from going for a divorce the minute her marriage gets difficult ?
2007-01-29 06:52:50 · 12 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the answer is dont marry her
2007-01-29 06:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a woman who enjoyed being single, and I also enjoy being married. The thing is, I'm the kind of person who tries to find something to enjoy in any situation. I also realise that in order to get some things I need to give up others - and I have no problem with that. I actually feel that mine is the best and most "functional" outlook. A person who "hates" being single would, IMO, not make a good mate; they would be more prone to "settle" for something less than what they deserved, which would only breed resentment and mistrust in the long run. A desperate person doesn't make good decisions.
The main reason why I did not hate being single had nothing to do with actually being "single"; it had to do with the fact that I am happy with myself, and can entertain myself just fine; I never get bored, always having things to do even when I'm alone in my house. However, I love the companionship that the marriage brings - even if I have to give up some of my independence. Luckily, I'm married to a person just as independent as myself - so we both get companionship without smothering each other.
2007-01-29 07:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should not. Married life would be too difficult to sustain with such a person. Marriage is about commitment, compromise and sacrifice. the single life affords you more freedom and less accountibility. So if the woman is quite happy being single, she should not be in a marriage until she changes her perspective.
2007-01-29 07:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by fireangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would this woman even agree to marrying him if she likes being single so much? Why would that guy even bother trying? And why must you end every sentence with a question mark?
As the leader of the YA Singles Militia, I must make it clear that a woman who is serious about the enjoyment of singlehood would never accept a marriage proposal. Any guy who pursues her knowing this deserves to be castrated.
2007-01-29 07:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like you're judging someone you know. "Hating being single" often-times implies that the person is needy (either emotionally or financially) and not self-sufficient enough or confident enough to be happy single--not a good choice for a wife. A woman who is happy being single, to me, suggests a woman who is self-confident in who she is and self-sufficient enough to take care of herself. She comes to marriage out of choice; not out of need. What better marriage partner is there? The man who choses such a woman to marry is also confident in his own masculinity and doesn't feel diminished by her, but, instead, feels strengthened by her. She marries because the man she marries is also her best friend and enhances the quality of her life and vice versa.
2007-01-29 07:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by Yo' Mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far as I can read, every one loses interest in being married. Marriage is a unity about LOVE and Respect and about wanting to share the rest of your life with that person. If a person accepts this commitment it's a honor. And like every one else we all take our Chances at love...it's NEVER EASY! as a matter of fact it's painful at times. There are no guarantees in LOVE!
2007-01-29 07:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by SecretFriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women want what they can't have. They see someone enjoying the single life and wonder what it'd be like to be with that person. I think it's futile to pursue someone who doesn't want a relationship.
On the other end of the spectrum, people who HAVE to be in a relationship all the time usually have underlying issues that no one wants to deal with. Fear of being alone, fear of being unloved, etc. etc. It's a waste of time to be with someone like that until they get professional help and straighten themselves out.
2007-01-29 06:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by SassySours 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In reality, no one enjoys being alone. They are perks to being single but nothing can outweight the security, teamwork and companionship of being married.
I say she either:
a- Divorced and not wanting to rush into things.
b- Want to keep on playing the field and not want to settle.
c. Not really into you enough to get married.
d. All of the above
Good luck
2007-01-29 07:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if she does not want to get married she should not get married and should stay single... You should only get married if you want and choose to.... If you choose to marry then stick it out through good times and bad and live with your choice and learn to be happy about it.... DO NOT marry if you would rather be single.
2007-01-29 07:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make some very important arguments. But the only one I can think of is she really matured enough. She wants something more than the single live she is satisfied and in love with the soon to be husband.
2007-01-29 07:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by GoldenGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she is very confident and very independent she will marry because she really loves you and wants to marry YOU-not simply because she wants to get married. And because she really loves YOU, hopefully she will want to work out the ups and downs and not f*** around on you.
2007-01-29 07:15:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋