I once fell in love with him,and since we split years ago we have been really close,but every time we try to be just friends we end up developing feelings again,and i'm not sure they ever disppeared-they say your first love never dies anyway.We keep getting flung back together,but recently i did something and we fell out.he refused to talk to me until the other day.I just know i can't live without him...i dont want him as a lover,i have a guy fo that and he's amazing.i need him in some way,i cant have nothing,i know that much.can we ever have a normal friendship?why do we always end up falling for eachother again?
2007-01-29 06:43:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
if u love him like that then be with him. ur heart knows best, why dont u ask it?
2007-01-29 08:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by Dead Birds Don't Poop 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because your mind is an illusion that tells you that you need this person. Try going for the next seven years without a partner. You will have much more respect for that person after such a period of time. Sometimes, we must lose all that we own to learn what we really have.
2007-01-29 15:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by johnmfsample 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a huge red flag if you say "I can't live without someone" you did before when you had a falling out. Let it go.
2007-01-29 14:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by kristonianinstitution 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no normal friendship, it is much more than that by now.
2007-01-29 15:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by Conway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋