I mean it has to be his idea if I see my grown son . His idea if I talk to him or not . Or even if I give him one of our extra tv sets that was given to me without him in the picture I gave to my son when we have 6 tv sets ?
2007-01-29 06:23:11 · 13 answers · asked by No One 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is ridiculous! Put your foot down now and show him that you're under no one's power. If you allow his behavior to continue, he will only become more controlling.
2007-01-29 06:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I take it these are not his kids? Either way, you should be able to see, talk, and give your children anything you want. Now, if your son is 30, and you are sending him money to pay his bills, I could see the complaint. But, barring anything like, you are an adult, and can do as you please.
Legally, any property you brought into the marriage is still yours, so technically, he has no say in the matter. And, any property you obtain during the marriage is 1/2 yours, and also, you have every right to do with it as you please.
Sounds like he's a @sshole to me. Don't let him come between you and your kids.
2007-01-29 06:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think he is controlling, has no self worth himself , so he feels he must control u. he is jealous of your son. won't work because eventually u will become resentful of him and have to make a stand on what u feel is right. he actually feels he has no control over his life so he is going to control yours, and if u let him he will get even more controlling as time goes by. better stop it now because u will eventually have to stop it sooner or later. if he isn't willing to allow u to do for your son, than he isn't a very good person, very immature and insecure about his own self. we teach others how to treat us, by allowing things to be in the first place we shouldn't. than they get the idea that they run the show. u have always done for your son, u are his mom, and to let the new husband run everything, and make all of the decisions will make u unhappy after awhile. went through 10 years of heartache with a controlling person, who was jealous of my son, who browbeat me every chance he got, and finally when i spoke up he left me for someone else. so stop it now, stand up for yourself now, maybe these were some of the things u needed to discuss with him prior to marriage. good luck.
2007-01-29 07:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you allow him to do these things it will continue to grow to something else afterwhile he will rule everything. Trust me... from experience. First talk to him and let him know that you disagree and that you all can work together through this. Otherwise u are doomed!!!!! Then you will get tired and want out (from him ruling) which will be harder since he will obviously be used to you agreeing to his behavior. Again stop it now or u are going to have problems.
2007-01-29 06:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by lazy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no man should have the power to tell you when and where and what you can do. You dont need his permission. What is his culture? I know that in some places it is customary for the man to have all the power and say and for women to be submissive but not in North America. I fear that you got yourself into a bad situation.
2007-01-29 06:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by Candy C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honey u shouldnt let anyone husband or not put limits where ur children are concerned. ur kids come first. not him. if want to give him 5 tv sets thats up to u cuz its ur kid. let it be ur idea if u stay with this overcontrolling pig
2007-01-29 06:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by mommie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There could be no compromise whilst it includes aggressive canines and babies. babies could come first and in the event that they do no longer, then CPS could take them removed from such neglectful mum and dad. Ask your husband that's greater substantial to him? His 8 year previous or his dogs? if that's the dogs, take the youngsters and bypass away him. document for divorce and ask for finished custody, with supervised visitation only for him as he would not understand the way risky canines could be with babies. If he says his infant, ask him how he will sense if he supplies that dogs a 2d threat and it heavily bites your infant, optimal to everlasting maiming or maybe dying? you're able to additionally clarify that if the infant is heavily injured, CPS will become in contact and if it turns into typical which you knew the dogs grew to become right into a gamble and did no longer something, you will probable lose custody of your infant(ren). i won't have the ability to assist you recognize why your dogs is doing this. All i will assist you recognize is that your dogs IS a right away threat on your loved ones. If I have been the dogs proprietor, i could only take him to the pound and tell them what happened, asking that the two they despatched it to a place that rehabilitates canines or that they placed it down. a infant is a valuable ingredient and if your husband won't have the ability to place your infant only before the dogs, do away with him too. Take care.
2016-11-28 03:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what an idiot husband. i am so sorry for you in must be like a living hell first of all DIVORCE him what kind of man can control his wife thats bull. you should make him pack up his bags and leave or get a really goood psychologist!
2007-01-29 06:31:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one who is in control over your actions. No one else has that right. Period!
2007-01-29 07:01:33 · answer #9 · answered by ILoveMe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is over stepping his boundaries. Put him in his place!
2007-01-29 10:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by xquis81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋