My gal Melrose really wants to have my baby! Is it wrong to have the baby before we get married?
2007-01-29 06:20:07 · 8 answers · asked by ICARRYABIGSTICK 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, of course it's not wrong because were getting married anyway so what difference does it make?
I told you already that I would do anything to have your baby even if it means lying to you and saying I'm on the pill when I'm not!
2007-01-29 08:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by CURVY 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It's not WRONG, but it's not all that smart, either. A child is there for the rest of your life. If you're mature enough to make a lifetime commitment, you should be mature enough to wait and begin that commitment when you're married, have a stable home together and have enough money to properly take care of the child.
Anything less is unfair to the baby and simply impulsive. Buy her a puppy instead.
2007-01-29 14:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by Vix 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its not so much that is wrong to have it before marriage, now a days that doesn't really matter as much I guess, The main question to ask is are you ready, Can you financially support a child, are you willing to give up everything to be with her and the baby. A baby is a big step bigger than marriage. A marriage you can leave or whatever but a child is forever.
2007-01-29 14:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by tinydancer 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it is. I think any baby deserves two committed parents. Marriage may be out dated to some, but it shows a willingness to commit and stick together. A baby needs a mother and a father, and it's much better if the two are a team.
2007-01-29 14:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong...if in that position, one needs to put the child first.
If you can't put the unborn child first, don't have a baby. Think about the life that you are bringing into the world. Put yourself in that childs shoes.
2007-01-29 15:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by I know for sure 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe it is, because having sex before marriage is wrong. God created sex to be between a husband and wife AFTER they are married.
I think most people who have sex before marriage start basing their feelings of each other on sex instead of actually getting to know each other personally.
2007-01-29 14:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that its a bad idea. i mean if you have intentions of staying with her for awhile and it could lead to marriage than it shouldn't be that big of a deal.....especially if you love her...you don't necessary have to get married to have a kid.
2007-01-29 14:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
wrong?maybe not,smart?maybe not.
2007-01-29 14:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by punkin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋