their is a boy i fancy ive been good friends with him but we dont talk to each other that much, i mean hes 15 and im 14 but we are in the same year, hes never been out with anyone in his life neither have i so we are not very forward people i mean everytime i see him i get nervous and once he came round my house with his parents for dinner and i cooked the dinner but the thing we were sitting opposite each other we couldnt look at ourselves at all i mean everytime i caught him looking at me he looked away quickly, i mean once when i said hi to him he smiled and nodded and other times he speaks but he doesnt talk that much just ocassionally i mean once i was walking to school i saw him he was with his mate and so was i then i looked at him smiling and he looked at me smiling then he looked away really quickly, but im afraid to ask him out because im not a forward person and i think he gets embarrassed of me even my dad thinks we fancy each other what should i do should i move on or not
2007-01-29 06:19:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think you should ask him out just yet - I would work on the friendship first and get to know each other a bit better and then when you are comfortable around each other it will happen naturally if not then ask him - it will just be too awkward if you go out with him now because you are struggling to look at each other let alone talk to each other - just relax and learn to enjoy each others company and before long you will both be an item
2007-01-29 06:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the way how things are going, it seems he is interested in you. Why miss out on an opportunity like this? I mean he is probably just as scared as you to ask you out himself. It seems like he can't even take his eyes off of you but when you do notice it, he freaks out right? He would always look away because he doesn't the courage to speak up because he feels like maybe you are not interested in him enough. He just needs to see some kind of sign that you are interested in him and I'm sure he would open up after that. Guys need this at times just so they don't make a fool out of theirselves. Especially for people that are not so very forward with theirselves.
2007-02-06 02:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by xeijei2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking this question you know your going to do what ever you want anyway. You should be thinking about other things at this time of your life. You have plenty of time for a boy Friend. I'll tell you as I did my 30 year old daughter. At your age guys are after one thing, and if he's the exception than time will tell. Focus on things that are going to benefit you in the future ahead. Time passes very quickly i know it seems to be going slow, but trust me you won't be sorry if you take this advice.
2007-01-29 14:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by russell c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww how cute. Anyway it sounds like your both just shy around eachother and thats normal for two people who like one another and have never dated before. I say hang out with him more offten and talk more on the phone its always easier to talk on the phone then in person anyhow. You two have to get comfortable around eachother before dating so hanging out more offten would be a good idea. Good luck!.
2007-02-05 12:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by Amy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should drop him a letter that says you like him or something. You both seem to worried. Drop it and do not worry. You will gain more confidence with each passing relationship and opportunity taken. Time to start building that confidence. Drop him a note, and do not look back. See what he does!
2007-01-29 14:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young for any of this sillyness...concentrate on your studies...
That way, when you are ready to date....you can get a job and go out on dates, driving your own car that you paid for...
I wish young kids would stop worrying about the opposite sex....Damn
2007-02-06 04:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jay L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be brave and ask him out! You can do it! If you don't you will always wonder, what would have happened if I went up to him and asked him...he will most likely say yes! Good Luck!
2007-01-29 14:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say ask him out. Just do it. If you both really like each other, there might be chemistry there. You never know you might end up dating well into your adult years
2007-02-06 01:43:45 · answer #8 · answered by Acid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read dr. phil loving smart and just relax and dont chase or pursue.
What is meant to be will happen dont rush it..................
Just relax that is the fun of being a teenager...........
Just smile and continue to be you.
Men appreciate what they have to work hard for and pursue.
It is the nature of men( similar to a dog) No self respecting dog chases parked cars............Good luck
Read dr phil and boundaries in dating.
Men are from mars and women are truly from venus...............
oh he likes you ......Dont ask him
If he wants you bad enough he willllllllllllll
2007-02-06 10:54:08 · answer #9 · answered by tennessee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop some helpful hints. He needs your encourgement. If nothing happens after a month move on. Maybe he'll catch on then...
2007-02-05 19:24:49 · answer #10 · answered by Purple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋