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My 73 yr. old step-father has Alzheimers. He currently resides in a assisted living/rest home. The director of the home has insisted on raising the price of taking care of him. I wouldn't have a problem with this, but she just raised the cost less than six months ago. We're not talking just a few dollars, we're talking a couple hundred. Can she do this legally? See, my dad is difficult to care for....I've pointed out that more money isn't going to make him any less difficult and that she WON'T hire any additional help to explain the cost. She's given me an ultimatum: either pay more or have him out in 30 days. Any input would be appreciated.

2007-01-29 06:16:52 · 12 answers · asked by manatee lover 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

12 answers

I would seriously call an Ombudsman there is a number as soon as you walk into the facility , to me this is abuse. Also I would contact your local District Attorney.
Also you see the CNA's that care for your Dad? they are making very small wages ask her if she plans on raising their pay as well.
To be honest with you having a grandparent in your home and a Cargiver is much cheaper. It makes me so sick to see this happening here in our county the DA is sueing the Company for things like this. Buut first call the OMBUDSMAN it is posted and they legally have to give you that number they represent your grandfather for FREE

2007-01-29 06:25:30 · answer #1 · answered by Gina 4 · 0 0

Wow that sounds very harsh, but those places are about making money.Unless you are under any contract with this A.L.F. then there is not much you can do.I would start looking for a medicare Alzheimer's facility or even one that has an Alzheimer's wing.I wish I had a better answer for you but unless you can take care of him yourself these places know how to put you in a difficult position.I'll pray for the both of you!!!

2007-01-29 14:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by miss-snoopy 4 · 0 0

I think I would be looking for somewhere else to take my step-dad. You are paying for them to provide a service for your father in helping him maintain his life the best he can. She sounds like she doesn't really care about your dad, she is only worried about the money. Most alzheimers patients are difficult and the staff is very aware of this. You need to report that care taker and get your step-dad out of her care. There are so many well established and very qualified facilities that will care for your father and take very good care of him. Perhaps you should take this time to shop around and find a better place for your dad. It's a shame he is living with this horrible disease, and he doesn't need to be treated like he is doing something wrong. Thank you and good luck.

2007-01-29 14:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0 0

Weigh your options! Would it cost more to keep him in there; or to bring him home and hire homehealth nurses to come in and take care of him? You're right~ raising the cost won't make him any less dificult; but it's perfectly legal for her to raise the costs whenever she wants to! (UNFORTUNATELY) I really don't know what else to tell you. Is there not a differant nursing home that costs less you can move him into?

2007-01-29 14:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by JeffHardy4Eva 3 · 0 1

You should contact a lawyer fast. This sounds like price gouging and discrimination for his condition. The next time you talk to her try and record the conversation.

2007-01-29 14:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by GoldenGirl 3 · 0 0

There is probably a Senior Arbirator in your town, If not

Look up the senior aid societyfor a lawyer that will work for

you. This does not seem legal.

JULIA G>

2007-01-29 14:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by julia g 2 · 0 1

Call up the Ombudsmen immediately. File charges. Raise holy hell.

2007-01-29 14:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Is your father elegible for Medicare? Most seniors are, specially if he has a serious condition.

Good luck

2007-01-29 14:21:17 · answer #8 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0 1

talk to a lawyer and put him in a different nursing home.

2007-01-29 14:28:57 · answer #9 · answered by angeleyessly 2 · 0 0

You should probably consult a lawyer.

2007-01-29 14:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by melimel 3 · 0 1

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