Hi All,
I've been posting questions on and off since last week. Well, my scorpio and I "agreed" that we've reached an impasse and can go no farther. He will not communicate with me and I learned, much to my surprise that he wants to get married some day. That shocked me, but to whom he has no idea. I was wanting to be closer to him and learn more about him. But he, for whatever reason, can not come closer to me. So we decided to part ways. I feel awful and I'm wondering how he's feeling. He seemed genuinely sad to let me go but since his focus are his companies and his future, he really has no room in his life for me or a relationship. I have been seeing him 7-8 days a month and I wanted to be closer to him...even if it was by phone.
Can I hear from the Scorpio's out there? Will he call me? He said he loved me but it seemed fairly easy for him to let go.
Thanks and I look forward to hearing from you guys!
2007-01-29 06:04:05 · 8 answers · asked by lioness 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
I'm a Scorpio and all I can say about them is that they love their space and freedom. They hate clingy and needy people. (Not that you are like that) Scorpios are also very independent and really don't need anyone. Also, Scorpios are deep-down quite selfish, so I can see him wanting to focus on what's important to him rather than a relationship. I think he's gone for good. Move on girl, because it seems like he has.
2007-01-29 06:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by Lilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On some questions like this, it's hard to answer as scorpios sometimes feel different about situations differently.
I'm a scorp that rather have fights like this and work it out but others are very different.
For some reason, I have a feeling that he cares about you but there is something that you possibly are unwilling to change and until you do, He won't go after you like you want him to do like in the movie fairy tales.
My guess is, he's more stay at home/work and take care of business while you are still partying it up hard? (I'm guessing as I don't know both of you but am truely guessing at what it is, but there is a impasse I think between both of you on something however)
Basically you are gonna have to cool your heels with him for a bit before approaching him again on it... take a break from each other as that is what he may be doing right now... He has goals set in his life (such as the marriage/kids etc) but he also has in his mind who this person is to be IMO and until you can change his opinion otherwise.. the impasse will happen.
He may contact again.. but it will be some time.. more than you may be willing to wait IMO
Biggest problem is to figure out the hangup...as I think their is some deal breaker in this relationship, and until it's gone.. I personally think that is your problem.
2007-01-29 21:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by gearbox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm actually a Pisces, but my closest friends (as well as an ex) are Scorpios, and I know them well.
One thing you do NOT have on your side is your Scorpio's determination. Once they've made up their minds, there's little that can stop them.
One the other hand, no one feels as deeply as a Scorpio. It's unlikely that he'll ever forget you. They're the most intense people in the zodiac.
If he refuses to communicate with you, there's little you can do. But Scorpios demand strength in a partner, so stay strong, don't grovel to him, be confident, and I hope that one day he returns to you.
2007-01-29 15:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Scorpio and as that sign of the Zodiac we tend to be secretive. So by him saying he wanted to get married some day means he is not ready to settle down yet so don't push the issue. I wouldn't get my hopes up that he will call you. Scorpions need space and time to think and get everything into prespective. Once a Scorpio has made a decision my advise would be to accept that decision and move on.
2007-01-29 17:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by ridgerunner200178 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it REALLY depends on the person. If I'm really in love with someone, it just about kills me to lose them. Now on the other hand, if I've met someone else I'm interested in, it's much easier to let go of the past. But thats with everyone. But in general, scorpios don't leave someone they view as their true love. Good luck.
2007-01-29 14:20:36 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i knew you were a leo which i'm guessing i could give a view from my experiances. I'm leo she is scorpio. and I know how that goes. so if you are leo re post the question i'll be looking
2007-01-29 15:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by leo's den 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say you let him go and find someone out there who speak up.
2007-01-30 03:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by Friv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.
2007-01-29 20:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by umm...yea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋