I am 10 weeks pregnat with baby number 4. All girls so far 9,8, and 22 months old. Lately I do not want my husband no where near me. I do not even want to sleep with him in the same bed. When he calls my name...or honey...I can feel the bitchy rage about to come out!! And for no reason at all. I do not want to tell him he makes me sick but it's on the tip of my tounge. Any advise before I pull out my hair (or his)!!!
2007-01-29 05:58:05 · 14 answers · asked by marisared2002 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You need to take a step back and really look at this situation. Why are you so angry with your husband? If you are not angry with him, why do you feel so repulsed by him? Do you think it's just the pregnancy hormones?
Think about what you love about him... and remember, he is the father of your children and deserves love and respect.
2007-01-29 06:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when i was pregnant with my daughter i was the same way. all it is is hormones. the best thing to do is to take some time to yourself away from home. doing something that you will definitely enjoy. also for the rage that you will definitely feel(guaranteed)the best thing to do is either work out or take a nice warm bath and just lock the door and play some music, it all depends on your personality.
remember that even though you are a busy mom as i can see, you still need time to do what you like without being mom or wife. hang in there honey hopefully yours won't be like mine and last through the whole pregnancy like mine did. i didn't want to be touched by anyone let alone my fiancee.
2007-01-29 06:10:48 · answer #2 · answered by ber-ber21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. When I was pregnant with my second I just felt this intense rage towards my husband, especially when he was being sweet. I would just try and let him know(when you arent feeling the bitchy rage) that your hormones are going crazy and not to take it personally if you get angry at him for something stupid. Then when you feel it coming on try to distance yourself from him and if all else fail stick your head under the pillow and scream, it helps.
2007-01-29 06:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK yes I know I'm a guy trying to answer this, tell me if I'm complete off, I do agree with the rest of the ladies thats it's hormones, your on your fourth child and you barely just started, you know you have 9 monthes of pain, back aches, ankles getting fat, etc, and etc, and on top of that you know that when your going to have this child it's going to hurt really really bad, (You could be use to it since you already have three children, but I'm guessing you'll never get use to that sort of pain.) So I think your just really mad because you know your in for a lot of pain and on top of that you have three other children to take care of, and your probably blameing your husband for putting you through all this pain. I feel sorry for you I really do, I can't say I've been there since I'm a guy.
BD
2007-01-29 06:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by Black Dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work through it because letting the frustration build up is only going to make it worse. so pick some time and sit down with your husband and have a face-to-face and let some emotions out. you need to let him know how you are feeling. he's not psychic. he can't read your mind and know something is wrong. you need to tell him and figure out some way to work it out.
without doing so is going to lead up to an argument that neither of you will win and the situation will become worse.
so relax, go out to eat, and talk.
2007-01-29 06:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by NovelT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like me when i was pregnant with my first child (a son). My poor husband survived. Its hormones. My doctor did not give me anything for it and told my husband to practice patience. I could not even handle the smell of a man near me.
2007-01-29 06:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by chersgaz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean too! everytime i am pregnant my husband says i get a little grouchy. i guess it is just our hormones. sometimes when we are eating the sound of him chewing his food makes me want to either throw up or strangle him. at some point i guess we mello out, he is not sure when that is though. i am at 8 weeks now and he says 40 is a long way away.
2007-01-29 06:14:51 · answer #7 · answered by FROG PRINCESS 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lately ive been feeling this way, im 34 weeks pregnant and ive been told that its hormones of gettign ready to have the baby, obviously your not about to have the baby, so maybe its something on a deeper level, or it could be hormones, sorry that icant really help, but i hope it gets better!!!
2007-01-29 06:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by ruspecialenuf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW!! i am 8 weeks and having the same problem. and my boyfriend wants to hold hands and kiss my stomach and i just want to punch him in the head. i tell him he smells and its making me sick and he gets away. this way he thinks that i want to be near him but his cologne/detergent/body wash is making me sick to my stomach. this way his feelings dont get hurt and he leaves me alone!!! but he doesnt live with me. ur situation is a lil different. good luck!!!! try to breathe and contain the rage.
2007-01-29 12:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by jean grey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my husband just breathing made me want to punch him in the face when I was pregnant. just keep a little distance for a while and it will pass.
2007-01-29 06:33:10 · answer #10 · answered by thisgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋